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Title: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Wednesday 19 December 18 16:52 GMT (UK)
Hi looking for any anscestors of Jane Grigor and John Ross. Jane was born in Duffus Morayshire 1881 she married in 1903. When her dad died in 1925 she was living in Taymouth Crieff. Any info appreciated.

Moira
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: CaroleW on Wednesday 19 December 18 20:50 GMT (UK)
Have you looked for her on the 1911 census to establish if she had any children at that time?
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Wednesday 19 December 18 20:56 GMT (UK)
I did have a look but wasn't sure which one was her as they married in Edinburgh so not sure where they were living.
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: mckha489 on Wednesday 19 December 18 21:13 GMT (UK)
There is this birth

ROSS
GRIGOR
M
1911
128/2 8
Inverallan

Of course, both names are common enough it could be any old Grigor ROSS
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Thursday 20 December 18 13:20 GMT (UK)
regarding Jane Grigors marriage, i noticed that my great grandmothers name was not on her certificate. it was another woman by the name of Grigor, M.S different too. i know its the right certificate as her sister was a witness and Janes husband was a witness on her sisters marriage in 1916. Its very confusing as Janes parents married in 1879 and Jane was the 1st born. The marriage was in St Giles in Edinburgh yet her parents lived in Duffus all their life.
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: mckha489 on Thursday 20 December 18 17:56 GMT (UK)
When did her mother die?
Do you mean the Christian name is incorrect as well as the maiden name.
Do you have Jane at home up until 1901?

I’m just trying to get an idea of the likelihood of her getting her mother’s details wrong.
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Thursday 20 December 18 18:28 GMT (UK)
Her mum died in 1934 and  her father in 1925. Jane Ross signed her father's death cert. I tried to put the cert in here but I can't, file too big it says. I put it on a site for Burghead where they come from and someone said it's Nettie ( Helen ) M.S Muir. I have searched everywhere for a match but nothing. Someone else said Jessie is short for Nettie ? I've checked in case it was her aunty or some other relative , but nothing.
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Thursday 20 December 18 18:35 GMT (UK)
Just had a quick look but cannot see her on the 1901 census
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: Wendy2305 on Thursday 20 December 18 19:20 GMT (UK)
Her mum died in 1934 and  her father in 1925. Jane Ross signed her father's death cert. I tried to put the cert in here but I can't, file too big it says. I put it on a site for Burghead where they come from and someone said it's Nettie ( Helen ) M.S Muir. I have searched everywhere for a match but nothing. Someone else said Jessie is short for Nettie ? I've checked in case it was her aunty or some other relative , but nothing.
Normally Nellie is another name for Helen and Jessie is another name for Janet Can I just check Jane's parents were Margaret Davidson and John Grigor and she had a sister Lilias who married Francis Johnston in 1904 as there are 4 people who died with the surname Ross mother's ms Grigor including Lilias Ann Gordon Ross and Margaret Davidson Ross
There is a marriage between a Margaret Davidson and John Grigor registered 1880 in Fraserburgh
In 1891 census in Duffus this John and Margaret are living with  John age 70 and Isabella age 60 possibly John's parents with children
William 14
Jane 9
John 8
Mary Ann 6
Isa  4
James 1
Margaret 0
Is this the correct family
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Thursday 20 December 18 19:23 GMT (UK)
Yes John and Margaret Davidson are correct. The first one you mentioned isn't our family.
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: Wendy2305 on Thursday 20 December 18 19:38 GMT (UK)
John's parents appear to be John Grigor and Isabella McKenzie can't see a marriage for them but John jr was born 1850 in Duffus and had a brother William born 1853 there's a death in 1906 Lathern for Isabella Grigor other name MacKenzie age 76 which would fit and a death for a John Grigor in 1900 Burghead age 81
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Thursday 20 December 18 19:41 GMT (UK)
Yes they are all my family and I have all the certs for them, it's the Jane Grigor marriage that's confusing.
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: Wendy2305 on Thursday 20 December 18 19:49 GMT (UK)
so the confusing part is on her marriage Jane named her mother Nettie or Nellie Grigor ms Muir when her mother was Margaret ms Davidson who died in 1934
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Thursday 20 December 18 19:53 GMT (UK)
Yes that's correct. I will have a search again tomorrow and see if I can bring anything else up. Also on the marriage cert it states that her father was a Salmon Fisherman, which he was, this convinced me more that it's the right one. Thanks for all your help, really appreciated.
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: Wendy2305 on Thursday 20 December 18 19:56 GMT (UK)
one last thing is her mother marked as deceased on the marriage even though she was still living
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Thursday 20 December 18 19:58 GMT (UK)
No very much alive
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Friday 21 December 18 17:42 GMT (UK)
Well I have searched and searched, used Janet, Nettie, Helen and various other names. No Muir and Grigor match.
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Friday 21 December 18 18:00 GMT (UK)
Janes address at time of marriage was 8 Chester Street Edinburgh.
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: Wendy2305 on Friday 21 December 18 18:57 GMT (UK)
Just to rule it out who was William's parents I noticed he was with John and Isabella in 1881 as their nephew
Also did either John or Margaret have a sister Helen Nellie or Ellen or are there any other grandchildren of either the Grigor's or Ross's who were the biological children of sons
I'm now wondering if a Helen/Nellie Muir had an illegitimate child to a Grigor or Ross as like you I can find no Grigor Muir marriage
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: Wendy2305 on Friday 21 December 18 19:49 GMT (UK)
Also who were Margaret Davidson's parents and did she have any siblings called Helen Nellie or Ellen
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: rosie17 on Friday 21 December 18 21:53 GMT (UK)
Just had a quick look but cannot see her on the 1901 census


Have you looked at this one ? Might be a possible and might explain how she was married in Edinburgh

Transcribed as Jeannie Gregor on Ancestry age 20 born about 1881 Duffus Elginshire
Occupation Tablemaid
Address 10,Atholl Crescent St George Edinburgh
At the home of  Henry M Cadell and his wife and family


Rosie
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Friday 21 December 18 22:43 GMT (UK)
Margaret Davidson was born in New Deer Aberdeen, they married 1879 and Jane was born 1881. Jane was living at 8 Chester Street Edinburgh when they married according to the marriage cert. William was the son of John and Margaret Grigor. There were three John's, my grandad, my GT grandad and my GT GT grandad. John and Mary, John and Margaret and John and Isabella.
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Friday 21 December 18 22:45 GMT (UK)
I wish I could get the cert on, I will try tomorrow.
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: MonicaL on Friday 21 December 18 23:25 GMT (UK)
Just helping Moira. Attached is a clip from Jane's 1903 marriage showing her parents' details:


Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: MonicaL on Friday 21 December 18 23:29 GMT (UK)
And from Jane's sister Isabella's marriage cert:

Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: MonicaL on Friday 21 December 18 23:34 GMT (UK)
Additonal clip from Jane Grigor's marriage reg with witness name of Ella Grigor (Ella - Isabella?)

Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: Millmoor on Saturday 22 December 18 00:20 GMT (UK)
A public tree showing the marriage of John Ross and Jane Grigor in 1903 has the following children

John Grigor Ross b 1904, James Swanson Ross b1908,Margaret Davidson Ross 1914 and Jane Grigor Ross b 1919. Apart from John the other children were born in Perthshire (although I note on SP there are 2 births showing for a James Swanson Ross in 1908, one in Comrie and one in Burghead).

I would suggest that the family is likely to have  been in Perthshire for the 1911 census and would suggest this as a possibility.

Ref 342/6/1 Crieff, Perthshire

John Ross 29
Jean Ross 29 (Jean and Jane often interchangeable).
John Ross 6
James S Ross 3

James Swanson Ross's birth cert would hopefully confirm date and place of parents marriage. Do you have Jane's death cert- what are her parents names there?

William
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Saturday 22 December 18 00:39 GMT (UK)
Thanks for that info, no I don't have Jane's death cert but I noticed she named one of the children after her mum ? Margaret Davidson Ross. My mum was Mary Ann Davidson Grigor  as it's traditional I believe to carry the grandmother's maiden name.
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Saturday 22 December 18 00:53 GMT (UK)
Can't find Jane's death either.
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: rosie17 on Saturday 22 December 18 06:29 GMT (UK)
Can't find Jane's death either.


The only death I can see for a Jane Grigor other name Ross is in 1926 George Square Edinburgh
Age 45 years ...Had a few credits and it is her she died Royal Infirmary 30 thNovember 1926
Her usual residence was Crieff ...Father John Grigor deceased ...Salmon Fisher
Mother Margaret Grigor maiden name Davidson ...Death was registered by her husband John Ross
If you Pm me  I will send you the copy ....Still does not help with the mothers name on marriage certificate ....which could possibly been a mistake ?

Rosie
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Saturday 22 December 18 08:47 GMT (UK)
Thankyou so much Rosie.
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: rosie17 on Saturday 22 December 18 09:13 GMT (UK)
Thankyou so much Rosie. My email is moiramount@hotmail.com.

Just on my way out will send you the copy when I get in ..you might be better to delete your e-mail mail address I have noted it

Rosie  :)
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Saturday 22 December 18 09:18 GMT (UK)
Oh my, I have just realised, I have her mum's death cert in 1934 and Jane was present at her death. What on earth is going on with this woman. ?????
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: Wendy2305 on Saturday 22 December 18 09:54 GMT (UK)
Oh my, I have just realised, I have her mum's death cert in 1934 and Jane was present at her death. What on earth is going on with this woman. ?????
Sorry Moira are you saying that Jane Ross daughter was the informant on her mums 1934 death cert although   Jane Ross died in 1926?
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Saturday 22 December 18 10:01 GMT (UK)
Sorry my mistake, just looked at cert, it was 1925 on her father's death cert. It was Isabella 1934 on her mum's. Phew, thank goodness for that. Thankyou so much.
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: Forfarian on Saturday 22 December 18 10:18 GMT (UK)
someone said it's Nettie ( Helen ) M.S Muir. I have searched everywhere for a match but nothing. Someone else said Jessie is short for Nettie ?
Nellie is a diminutive of Helen or Eleanor. Nettie is a diminutive of Janet, which is used interchangeably with Jessie. I am not convinced the name on that certificate is either Nellie or Nettie.

Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Saturday 22 December 18 10:24 GMT (UK)
Hi forfarion, yes I have tried every name available, even just putting Grigor in. It's either her father had a fancy woman or it's a mistake. I think I will go with the mistake.
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: Forfarian on Saturday 22 December 18 10:30 GMT (UK)
Hi forfarion, yes I have tried every name available, even just putting Grigor in. It's either her father had a fancy woman or it's a mistake. I think I will go with the mistake.
Yes, I agree that it looks like a mistake.

If I were you I think I would contact the Registrar in Edinburgh - that is the office of the Registrar for the city, not the Registrar General at New Register House, who holds the books from which the information on Scotland's People is taken -  attaching all the evidence you have from certificates including at least one of Jane's children's births showing that marriage date and place in 1903, and ask them if their duplicate copy of the register contains anything that might shed light on the matter.
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Saturday 22 December 18 10:32 GMT (UK)
Good Idea
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: rosie17 on Saturday 22 December 18 10:57 GMT (UK)
Hi Moira have sent you a copy ...As Forfarian has suggested I would contact Register in Edinburgh

Do you have the birth certificate for Jane Grigor born 1881 showing her parents names ?

Rosie
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Saturday 22 December 18 11:00 GMT (UK)
Not sure will have a look
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Saturday 22 December 18 11:04 GMT (UK)
No I don't have it, will look on Scotland's people.
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: rosie17 on Saturday 22 December 18 11:04 GMT (UK)
Not sure will have a look

You should be able to download on Scotlands People
Jane Grigor female 1881 Duffus ref/number 13/41
That will give you her parents names and the date of their marriage

Rosie
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Saturday 22 December 18 11:16 GMT (UK)
I have their marriage, birth and death certs it was just their children that I hadn't done. Thanks for all your help much appreciated.
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Saturday 22 December 18 13:43 GMT (UK)
Just a quick one, how do you find where someone is buried, still trying to find where Jane's parents are buried. I've been on the Libindex, find a grave etc and no one appears to know.
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: rosie17 on Saturday 22 December 18 13:49 GMT (UK)
Hi Moria have you tried www.deceasedonline/com

Rosie
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: Forfarian on Saturday 22 December 18 14:45 GMT (UK)
Where did her parents die?

If they died in Moray but are not on LIBINDX (NB it is not libindex - the name was created in the days when computer file names could only have 8 letters!) that means that there was no legible gravestone when the Moray burial grounds were surveyed in 1978. And if there is no stone, there would only be anything on FindaGrave etc etc if someone had transcribed the burial records.

There might be a burial record, as opposed to a gravestone, but the Duffus burial records are not exemplary and don't go back very far. Moray Local Heritage Centre should have a copy of the Duffus burials.

Don't waste your time or money on Deceased Online because Moray's burial records are not available on Deceased Online.
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Saturday 22 December 18 15:44 GMT (UK)
1925 and 1934
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: Forfarian on Saturday 22 December 18 16:44 GMT (UK)
1925 and 1934
Yes, I saw those dates above. I asked where they died.
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Saturday 22 December 18 16:47 GMT (UK)
Sorry, Burghead
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: Forfarian on Saturday 22 December 18 17:19 GMT (UK)
Sorry, Burghead
So the likelihood is indeed that they're in Duffus cemetery.
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Saturday 22 December 18 18:22 GMT (UK)
Probably, not sure if I could write to the vicar and get confirmation, also there is a cemetery in Burghead but I couldn't locate them on my last visit.
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: Forfarian on Saturday 22 December 18 19:27 GMT (UK)
Probably, not sure if I could write to the vicar and get confirmation, also there is a cemetery in Burghead but I couldn't locate them on my last visit.
There is no vicar - vicars don't exist in the Church of Scotland, and in any case the churches no longer hold the burial records.

The records of all cemeteries in Moray are in the hands of Moray Council, and microfilm copies are available in the Local Heritage Centre in Elgin.

And if there had been a stone in Burghead or anywhere else in Moray it would have been recorded in the 1978 survey, and the details would be on LIBINDX.



 
Title: Re: Jane Ross nee Grigor
Post by: moiramount on Saturday 22 December 18 19:29 GMT (UK)
Ok thankyou.