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Title: Family history coincidences
Post by: Eric Hatfield on Saturday 05 January 19 21:51 GMT (UK)
I have come across some matches that appeared quite strange to me, but which I now believe are simply coincidences. I'm interested to hear if others have had similar discoveries.

I and my aunt have both had our aDNA tested, as have my wife and her mother. There are no known connections between my wife's family and mine, except for our marriage, and our ancestors all came from different parts of the UK (Scotland and southwest England for my wife, and Ireland and Yorkshire for me). Yet it turns out that a person I'll call A matches both sides of these families, one side within the last 5 generations (according to the DNA match) and the other more distantly.

At first I thought there must be some mistake, but discussion on another thread here has suggested to me that this must be the sort of coincidence that happens from time to time. On my side of the family, the common ancestor with A is likely to be about 5 generations back, when I would have 64 4G grandparents, and on my wife's side, if the MRCA is 8 generations back then there would be potentially (I think) 512 7G grandparents. Those grandparents would have thousands of descendants alive today, and somewhere someone from each line got together to produce A.

You would think that people living far apart in UK would be unlikely to get together, but two things show me this isn't necessarily the case:
There is a further coincidence in my case. My maternal grandmother was adopted and her adoptive parents appear in A's tree. Adoptions could occur back then (1891) when a family member had an "inconvenient" child, but I think this is just another coincidence - I don't think they are biologically related to me and the source of the connection with A, because my aunt isn't related to that grandmother but she also matches A.
 
I'm wondering if others have found similar unlikely results that turned out to be coincidences?
Title: Re: Family history coincidences
Post by: sugarfizzle on Sunday 06 January 19 16:22 GMT (UK)
Eric, I didn't want to be the first person to respond to this thread!  However, since nobody else has, here goes.

I have had a similar experience, though again, as in the related thread, not identical. Just recalled it going through my matches.

My husband and I are from very different roots, me mainly from London and Home Counties, he mainly from Yorkshire and the North.

He is a DNA match with someone who has a private tree, but who has responded to me.
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He matches her and her maternal aunt through one branch of his family from the Birmingham area, they are 5th and 4th cousins respectively.

She contacted me again after looking at my tree and finding that we had a name in common on her father's side, thinking it likely to be on my husband's line again. However, it was on my maternal line.

A married B. After A's death, B went on to marry my maternal 3x great uncle (brother of my 2G grandmother) in London.

There were children from both marriages, who are obviously genetically related to each other, but not to me, though we could have easily ended up so. She is descended from son of the first marriage on her paternal side.

So, she and her aunt are confirmed matches with my husband on her maternal line, she could have turned out to be a match with me on her paternal side as well, but is still fairly closely linked. Also, she is connected to both my husband and me (by marriage, at least). This would put her in a very similar situation to our children and any children you and your wife may have - connected to a match through both of the parents.

I would never have realised if she hadn't contacted me again, as I have no access to her tree.

Regards Margaret
Title: Re: Family history coincidences
Post by: Eric Hatfield on Tuesday 08 January 19 01:14 GMT (UK)
That's an interesting story, Margaret. Perhaps these double connections aren't as uncommon as we think. I may see if I can find some research on the subject.
Title: Re: Family history coincidences
Post by: Eric Hatfield on Wednesday 09 January 19 23:01 GMT (UK)
Hi Margaret, just another example. (Now my mind is open to it, I can see these strange coincidences in more than one place.)

I have a good match on My Heritage (call him D) - 12 segments totally 219 cM. I wrote to D and found that he was my first cousin twice removed, on my father's side (his great grandfather was my father's brother, but my father was born 20 years after his GGfather, so he has 4 generations to MRCA and I have only 2). So that relationship is quite clear.

But when I check on the MH chromosome browser, D has three smaller segments in common with my maternal cousin (largest = 13 cM) , and 3 more different segments in common with my maternal aunt (largest = 32 cM).

I know of no other connection between my father and mother's families (though they all did for a time live in Melbourne) yet there are these DNA connections. 32 cM isn't a small segment, and if I add up approximately the total matches between D and them, they would be about 36 cM (cousin) and 52 cM (aunt). That would suggest relationships about 4th cousin and 3rd cousin once removed, which both fit with a MRCA 5 generations back.

I'm not aware of such a connection, but I know my father's family tree very well, and probably know enough of my maternal grandfather's tree (which it has to be since my aunt is actually only a half aunt) that I ought to be able to find this connection. It is very curious to me, and I will let you know if I can find anything, just out of interest.
Title: Re: Family history coincidences
Post by: sugarfizzle on Thursday 10 January 19 00:23 GMT (UK)
Stranger and stranger.

This is interesting -

https://www.rootschat.com/forum/index.php?topic=806288.new#new

 :) :)

Regards Margaret
Title: Another report from the trenches
Post by: Eric Hatfield on Thursday 10 January 19 00:35 GMT (UK)
Hello again Margaret,

I saw your link, thanks and I may comment there too, maybe.

This is starting to worry me. The info in my last comment was from my chromosome browser, where I compared my maternal aunt (A), my maternal cousin (C) and my paternal first cousin twice removed (D). I will focus here on the A-D match.

On my browser, I match with both of them on three segments. One I can read off the value, but the others are only partially overlapping so I have to estimate. The 3 segment values in cM are 32.0 and approximately  6 and 12, a total of about 50 cM. There could possibly be other segments in common between A & D which I don't share and so don't appear on my browser.

So I thought I would check that, and looked up A's DNA results, where D should (on the basis of my browser results) be one of the top matches. But D doesn't appear at all on A's DNA list, not if I search, not at all.

How can that be? Am I missing something, or is there some glitch here somewhere?

Any thoughts? Perhaps I should see if there's a My Heritage forum and ask there.

Title: Re: Family history coincidences
Post by: sugarfizzle on Thursday 10 January 19 00:59 GMT (UK)

Eric, On this forum I usually concentrate on the practical results of DNA testing, especially when I can compare someone else's experiences with my own.  I don't fully understand the science of DNA, only the basics. And as I get older, even simple concepts can appear difficult to me.

But what you have described sounds impossible. If A and D match each other, then D and A should match each other, or are we both missing something obvious?

I hope someone else has some thoughts on the subject.

Regards Margaret

Title: Re: Family history coincidences
Post by: Eric Hatfield on Thursday 10 January 19 06:31 GMT (UK)
Hello again Margaret,

I've been thinking more about it, and I was wrong. It was a beginners' mistake and I fell into it.

D and A both match me on the same segment, but that doesn't mean they match each other there, for there are two sides to every chromosome. We can only know that A & D are related if they match each other on that segment, which they don't.

So I relate to A on one side of that chromosome and to D on the other side of that chromosome, so I got some of that DNA from each of them, but it is different DNA, and they are not related.

It was a silly mistake, but I made it anyway. Let that be a lesson to me!
Title: Re: Family history coincidences
Post by: stevemiller on Thursday 10 January 19 08:53 GMT (UK)
Hello Eric,

This is the key concept about DNA which I have trouble getting focused in my mind.

I don't know why, but what you have written just seems clearer than anything else I've read.

Hopefully, getting my Mum to do a test over Christmas will clarify a great deal.

My academic background is history rather than science, so I'm on a steep learning curve - like many others, I suspect!

Thanks
Steve
Title: Re: Family history coincidences
Post by: Eric Hatfield on Thursday 10 January 19 09:39 GMT (UK)
Hi Steve, thanks for the encouragement. I understand this stuff about triangulation, but in my eagerness I sometimes forget it. We need three matches to triangulate, not just two!   8)
Title: Re: Family history coincidences
Post by: Clarkey500 on Friday 11 January 19 12:09 GMT (UK)
It's certainly possible.

I've got a match on ancestry who is my fourth cousin, once removed on my father's side (on her mother's side) and a fifth cousin, twice removed on my mother's side (on her father's side)!
Title: Re: Family history coincidences
Post by: whiteout7 on Friday 11 January 19 12:55 GMT (UK)
I say completely possible

My parents had relatives that were married to each other.
My parents are not related to each other by blood.
I am related to both my parents and their relatives.

Later on my cousin on my fathers side married a relative of my mother.
My cousin and his wife are not blood relatives.
I have dna from my cousins side and his wifes side (and so does their child, just in different proportions)

I'd imagine any adopted children of my extended family searching for us could get really confused by DNA results because of this?? My family always check that marriages don't involve blood relatives btw. Once you get further back or people don't have good records this might not work .......

Title: Re: Family history coincidences
Post by: sugarfizzle on Tuesday 22 January 19 04:12 GMT (UK)
I share my paternal 7G grandparents from Surrey with a match. This has been flagged up by Ancestry as a 'Shared Ancestor Hint'. Job done, 8th cousins, no problem.

I share 19.8 cMs with this match - not impossible, but perhaps unlikely to be 8th cousins.

However, shared matches are on my maternal side.

We haven't got to the bottom of this as yet, and probably never will, but his great grandfather gave what was probably a false name and age when he married, reported to be son of a Kentish policeman.

https://www.rootschat.com/forum/index.php?topic=765221.0

In this case, the coincidence is not as striking as others given, as both my parents had roots in Kent and Surrey.  But it is still potentially confusing.

Regards Margaret
Title: Re: Family history coincidences
Post by: Eric Hatfield on Tuesday 22 January 19 23:46 GMT (UK)
Now that I'm aware of this issue, I've come across another case of a double connection. I manage a DNA kit for my cousin, whose ancestors were among the earliest free white settlers in NSW. Recently a match wrote to me because it seemed both she and her husband were connected to this family - she known by DNA match and her husband known by paper records. So I investigated and found that a convict family and a free settler family had a son and a daughter marry, and then a grandson and granddaughter marry in the next generation. This wouldn't be unexpected because they were farming on the northwest fringe of Sydney (Hawkesbury River) when Sydney was a very small place and there wouldn't have been many spouses to choose from in that small Hawkesbury community.