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Title: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: speedy on Sunday 28 August 05 09:07 BST (UK)
Hi, I'm looking for information on the Thomas and Harriet Simmons family.  Thomas was born Ashburnham in 1817 and Harriet, daughter of George Pilbeam was born Burwash 1820.  In 1851 they apparently lived at Borzell farm, Ticehurst.  I would like information on both and ancestors and descendants of Thomas.  If anyone can help I will be grateful.
Thank you
Speedy
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: 'Tricia on Sunday 28 August 05 09:16 BST (UK)
Welcome to Rootschat :)

1861 census

 Address looks like Luttenden,Ashburton,

Thomas Simmons1816  Penhurst, Sussex,  Head Farmer of 100 acres employing one boy
Harriett Simmons 1821  Burwash, Sussex,Wife   
Thomas Simmons age 16 born  Lutifield(?) Catisfield(?) Sussex Carter, Agric Lab
 Ellen Simmons 1858  Ashburnham, Sussex,Daughter
 Emily Simmons  1847  Battle, Sussex,Daughter Nursemaid
 Fanny Simmons 1852 Ticehurst Dau
 Hannah Simmons 1854  Etchingham, Sussex,Daughter
 Harriett Simmons 1851  Ticehurst, Sussex,  Daughter 
 Joseph Simmons 1856 Ticehurst Son   
 Richard Simmons1859  Ashburnham, Sussex,Son
 Ruth Martha Simmons  1860  Ashburnham, Sussex, Daughter 

 
 RG9/565 Battle Folio 134 Page 11

Though Thomas has birthplace of Penhurst this is the same family as on 1871 with Thomas giving birthplace of Ashburton
 
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: 'Tricia on Sunday 28 August 05 09:32 BST (UK)
Possible brother of Harriet. Dates and places match

Address looks like Homecrouch, Goudhurst Kent

 Henry Pilbeam 1815  Burwash, Sussex, Head, Master Blacksmith
Hannah Pilbeam  1812  Goudhurst, Kent,  Wife 
Frank Pilbeam 1854  Goudhurst, Kent,  Son 
George Pilbeam1850  Ticehurst, Sussex,  Son 
Harry Pilbeam 1840  Wadhurst, Sussex,  Son, Smith     
 John Pilbeam 1856  Goudhurst, Kent,Son
 Thos Pilbeam  1852  Ticehurst, Sussex,Son 
 Wm Pilbeam  1842  Lamberhurst, Kent,  Son 

 
RG9/508 Cranbrook Folio 8 Page 9
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: 'Tricia on Sunday 28 August 05 09:48 BST (UK)
1871 census very difficult image to read - change of address and occupation?

Canal - then name of a cottage or Pub which I can't read, Milton Kent

Thomas Simmons 1817  Ashburnham, Sussex,Head Publican
Harriet Simmons 1822  Burwash, Sussex,  Wife   
Hannah Simmons 1854  Etchingham, Sussex,  Daughter 
Ellen Simmons 1858  Ashburnham, Sussex,  Daughter 
Richard Simmons  1859  Ashburnham, Sussex,Son   
 Martha Simmons  1860  Ashburnham, Sussex,  Daughter 
?Amy ?Simmons 1862  Ashburnham, Sussex,  Daughter   

 
  RG10/891 Gravesend Folio 116 Page 42


Tricia
  
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: 'Tricia on Sunday 28 August 05 09:59 BST (UK)
Do you have this?

In 1881 Thomas and Harriet are lodgers with the 'Card' family

Church Fields, West Malling Kent

George Card  1839  Wt Malling, Kent,  Head Farm Labourer
Susan 1839  Egerton, Kent,Wife
 Ellen Card 1879 West Malling Kent
Alice Card1877  Wt Malling, Kent, 
Thomas Card 1867  Wt Malling, Kent, Son Groom
William Card  1865  Ditton, Kent, England Son
Harriet Simmons 1821  Burwash, Sussex,Lodger
 Thomas Simmons 1818  Ashburnham, Sussex,Lodger Labourer


RG11/0901 Malling Folio 23 Page 39
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: 'Tricia on Sunday 28 August 05 10:07 BST (UK)
In 1881 there is an Amy K Simmons lodging with a 1 month old baby!!!

  Offham Road West Malling Kent

Frederick Misson abt 1850  Maidstone, Kent,Head  Waterman
Frances H. Misson abt 1849  Maidstone, Kent,Wife 
 Christina Misson1876  Wt Malling, Kent,Daughter
 Frances C. Misson abt 1880  Wt Malling, Kent,  Daughter 
 Henry F. Misson abt 1879  Wt Malling, Kent, Son
 William H. Misson abt 1875  Wt Malling, Kent,  Son
 Amy K. Simmons abt 1862  Ashburham, Sussex,Lodger Domestic Servant
 Ernest H. Simmons  1881  West Malling, Kent,Lodger   


RG11/0901  Malling Folio 22 Page 37

Tricia
 
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: Chris in 1066Land on Sunday 28 August 05 10:15 BST (UK)
Hi there

1851 Census

HO107/ 1639/ Folio 95/ Page 84 - Borzell Farm House, Ticehurst

SIMMONDS Thomas, Head, Marr, 34, Farmer employs 4, born Ashburnham
.................  Harriott, Wife, Marr, 29, born Burwash
.................  Thomas, Son, Unm, 6, born Catsfield
.................  Eliza, Dau, Unm, 4, born Battle
.................  Harriott, Dau, Unm, 8m, born Tcehurst

SIMMONDS James, Head, 32, Farmer employs 4, born Ashburnham
.................  Eliza, Wife, Marr, 25, born Battle
.................  Eliza M L P, Dau, Unm, 6, born Battle
.................  James, Son, Unm, 1, born Ticehurst
.................  Emily, Neice, Unm, 21, born Hurstmonceux

Hope that helps

Chris in 1066
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: speedy on Sunday 28 August 05 10:19 BST (UK)
Thank you for all your help it is quite likely that the family moved to Milton Gravesend.  They had a son also a Thomas (abt 1844) who was manager of the coal company, he live at 1 Coal Store Cottage.  However I dont recall them all living at the same address on the 1971 census.  I do recall an Amy with a young baby but I didn't really have any details.  
Thanks again
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: Chris in 1066Land on Sunday 28 August 05 10:23 BST (UK)
Hi again

1841 Census

HO107/ 1108/ 10 - Hailsleden, Dallington, Near Battle

SIMMONDS Thomas, 25, Farmer
................   James, 22
................   Sylvestor, 15
................   Frances, 15

All born in county of Sussex

Looks like they were at home and unmarried in 1841 - the two 15 year olds are both females.

Chris in 1066
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: 'Tricia on Sunday 28 August 05 11:06 BST (UK)
This ref gives correct birth year for your Harriet

SIMMONS, Harriet
Death Quarter ending December 1887
Age at death:    67
Malling Kent
2a
339

Tricia
 
 
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: 'Tricia on Sunday 28 August 05 11:11 BST (UK)
Possible for Thomas though age doesn't quite tally - often doesn't, though

SIMMONS  Thomas
Death Quarter ending March 1891
Malling Kent
2a
440
Age at death 78 years

Do you want any of those family members checking on census 1871 onwards???

Tricia
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: speedy on Sunday 28 August 05 11:44 BST (UK)
Yes please to the checking of the 1871 Census.  I only have information on the two older children son Thomas, and daughter Annie.

Many thanks
Sheila
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: 'Tricia on Sunday 28 August 05 11:58 BST (UK)
1871 census

Bodle Street, Warbleton Sussex

William Bristow1829  Hamsey, Sussex,  Head Miller employing 1 man and 1 boy
Mary Ann Bristow  1832  Hartfield, Sussex,  Wife
Emily Mary Bristow 1862  Hurstmouceux, Sussex,Daughter   
 Ansley Ann Bristow  1866  Hurstmouceux, Sussex,  Daughter   
 Joseph Simmons 1856  Ashburnham, Sussex, Apprentice

  RG10/1045 Hailsham Hellingly Folio 46 Page 24

Can't postively identify him on other census at moment

Tricia
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: 'Tricia on Sunday 28 August 05 12:09 BST (UK)
1881 census

Church Field West Malling Kent

 Frank Hollands1856  Headcorn, Kent Head Journeyman Baker
 Emily Hollands 1856  East Peckham, Kent,  Wife
 Emily Hollands 1874  West Malling, Kent,Daughter
Minnie Hollands 1876  West Malling, Kent,  Daughter   
Frank Hollands  1879  West Malling, Kent,Son
George H. Hollands 1880  West Malling, Kent,Son
 Richard Simmons 1860  Ashburnham, Sussex,  Lodger Farm Labourer

RG11/0901  Malling Folio 23 Page 39
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1891 census

St Leonards Street West Malling

Simmons, Richard 1859 Ashburnham, Sussex,Head Agric Lab  West    Simmons, Sarah 1858 Earl Weckham, Sussex, Wife  Simmons, Thomas  1817  Kent,  Father Widower - Birthplace difficult to read
Edward Norrington Age 2 born Sheerness Kent Nephew

 
 RG12/670 Malling Folio 42 Page 31

As this  census was taken on the 5th April 1891 the other death of Thomas - father - is incorrect :)

Tricia
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1901 census
St Leonard's Street West Malling

Richard Simmons1858  Ashburnham, Sussex,  Head Farm Bailiff
 Sarah Simmons 1858  East Peckham, Kent,  Wife 
 Jane Langhorst  1830  East Peckham, Kent,  Mother-in-law Widow
 Emily Norrington  1891  Sheerness, Kent,  Niece 

RG13/743 Malling Folio 67 Page 21

Tricia
 
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: kerryb on Sunday 28 August 05 12:24 BST (UK)
Hi Speedy

George Pilbeam, father to Harriet was my 4 x gr grandfather.  According to the 1851 census George was living at Battenhurst Farm, Ticehurst, employing 120 people. 

According to my records for the Pilbeam family, and apologies if you already have any of this information:

Harriet and Thomas were married at Dallington in 1842.  thomas died at West Malling in Kent.  Thomas & Harriet were lodgers of George Card and his family on the 1881 census, the address was Church Fields, West Malling, Kent. Thomas was a 63 year old labourer and Harriet was aged 60.  That confirms that.

Children of Harriet Pilbeam and Thomas Simmons are:
i.   Annie Simmons, born Bef. 16 August 1843 in Battle or Catsfield, Sussex, England; died 09 August 1914 in Pitlochry, Perth, Scotland.
ii.   Thomas Simmons, born Bef. 22 September 1844 in Catsfield, Sussex, England; died Aft. 1891.
iii.   Eliza Simmons, born Abt. 1847 in Battle, Sussex, England.
iv.   Harriet Simmons, born Bef. 13 October 1850 in Ticehurst, Sussex, England.

More About Harriet Simmons:
Baptism: 13 October 1850, Ticehurst, Sussex, England

v.   Fanny Simmons, born Bef. 07 March 1852 in Ticehurst, Sussex, England.

More About Fanny Simmons:
Baptism: 07 March 1852, Ticehurst, Sussex, England

vi.   Hannah Simmons, born Bef. 04 September 1853 in Etchington, Sussex, England

More About Hannah Simmons:
Baptism: 04 September 1853, Etchington, Sussex, England

vii.   Joseph Simmons, born Bef. 29 July 1855 in Ticehurst, Sussex, England.

More About Joseph Simmons:
Baptism: 29 July 1855, Ticehurst, Sussex, England

Also this is a theory of mine but one of George's sons, James (my gr x 3 grandather) married a Sarah Simmons born 1815 in Penhurst.  I think she may be Thomas's sister.  Her father was called Thomas and I am still looking for him.  If I find anything more I will let you know.

best wishes

Kerryb

Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: kerryb on Sunday 28 August 05 12:35 BST (UK)
Hi again

If you are interested in a marriage cert for Thomas and Harriet the details are:

Year: 1842
quarter: March 
District: Battle
Volume 7
Page 309

Kerryb
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: kerryb on Sunday 28 August 05 22:05 BST (UK)
Hello again Speedy

I have now extracted all the information I have on Thomas's descendents from a 179!! page document I was sent with regard to the Pilbeams. 

I don't know how accurate the information is as I have not checked out all 179 pages but I hope it helps you with your research.

The information came from a distant Pilbeam relative in Australia who has done copious and thorough research on the Pilbeams from the 15th cenutry and if you would like any information on Harriet's roots let me know and I'll extract some more for you.

best wishes

kerryb
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: speedy on Monday 29 August 05 16:35 BST (UK)
I have been able to extract new information from all of the replies, which has been really useful.  However can anyone tell me whether Thomas' brother, James Simmons or any member of his family were still living at Borzell Farm in 1861 & 1871.
Thank you again
Sheila
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: kerryb on Friday 09 September 05 22:52 BST (UK)
Sheila

In answer to your last question, can't find a James at Borzell Farm in 1861 or 1871.  There is a James who was born in Penhurst in 1819 who in 1861 and 1871 is living at Wartling with a brother Joseph born 1821 and his father, Thomas born 1787 and mother Ann born 1786. 
There are various grandchildren and it looks like James's wife, Emma born Battle 1826.

I think but am yet to prove that these are parents and siblings of my Sarah also born in Penhurst. 

If you would like more details let me know.

KerryB
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: speedy on Sunday 11 September 05 16:44 BST (UK)
Hi Kerry

I did email the photographs but got conflicting messages as to whether they were sent.  Unfortunately they are too large to attach here, perhaps you will let me know whether you have received them.
I thought James' wife was an Eliza, though she was born in Battle, I believe the children were named after there parents, Eliza and James.  I visited Penhurst, it is so tiny I cannot believe there would have been more than one James Simmons living there.
Going back to Harriets parents George Pilbeam and Ann Weston, do you know whether Ann was married to George?  Its odd that she is always referred to as a Weston and not a Pilbeam.

regards
Sheila
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: kerryb on Sunday 11 September 05 17:11 BST (UK)
Hi Sheila

Haven't received the photos yet. 

Interesting what you say about you think James's wife is Eliza because on the census return there is also an Eliza born 1830 in Herstmonceux.  I assumed she was married to Joseph, the sibling because she comes after him.  But never assume anything.  So this could be Janes' wife and Emma married to Joseph. 

However on the 1871 census return, James is a widower? and Joseph and Elizabeth are still there.

Your right about the size of Penhurst, blink and you miss it.  I haven't been to the church there but some years ago a friend and I parked there to do a long circular walk and we had tea in the churchyard.  Years before my FH interest.

I have a date for George and Anne's marriage 21 Nov 1807 at Burwash.  This information is on the document I received from Nardia in Australia.  Her information came from the lady carrying out the One Name Study for Pilbeam.  Incidentally Anne died in 1840 and George married again to a Phoebe Skinner.

regards

kerry
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: kerryb on Monday 12 September 05 15:18 BST (UK)
Hi Sheila

Visited Penhurst where there are no Simmons buried and Wartling today.  At Wartling several Simmons including:
Thomas Simmons buried 1871, aged 85
Ann Simmons 77 years, couldn't read date but possibly wife of Thomas.

Emma wife of James Simmons, died May 1866 40 years
James Isaac Simmons died 4 Jan 1900 aged 61 years

John Thomas Simmons died 10.4.1903
Mary Ann Simmons died 11.11.1912 aged 71 years

Charles Simmons died 27.10.1909 81 years
Susannah wife of Charles died 15.01.1907 aged 72 years

Fanny Simmons died 27.01.1927 aged 85 years

Joseph Thomas Simmons died 6.11.1933? (a bit unreadable) aged 69
wife Emily Sarah died 5.11.1936 aged 70
Anna Jane died Jan 1976 aged 72

Joseph Simmons died 27.02.1890 aged 69 years
wife Elizabeth died 21.05.1914 aged 85 years

Louisa Simmons died 3.4.1883 aged 27 years

I don't know whether any of these are the Simmons that we are both searching for and I hope it doesn't confuse matters.  Some of the names ie James and Emma and Joseph and Elizabeth and Thomas and Ann fit with the 1861/1871 census returns for Wartling.

best wishes

Kerry

Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: speedy on Monday 12 September 05 19:01 BST (UK)
Hi Kerry,

You have been busy!

I have just checked Ancestry.co 1881 census and my thoughts are that we could possibly eliminate Charles, Susannah and Fanny.  They seemed to have run the local ale house "Horseshoe Inn".  I wonder if it is still there!

Not too sure about James and Emma, I think James Isaac is too young our James is abt 1818

I would hope and like to think that Ann and Thomas, Joseph and Elizabeth are family members.

On the 1881 census Joseph and Elizabeth lived at Cowden Farm, Wartling were they and the parents at that farm in 1861 or 1871.

Food for thought

Best Wishes

Sheila

Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: kerryb on Monday 12 September 05 22:35 BST (UK)
Hi Sheila

Presumably the Horseshoe Inn is now the Lamb Inn next to the church at Wartling.  Well worth a visit if you are ever there, the food is yummy!

I have just looked at 1861 and 1871 and yes it was Cowden Farm, Wartling. 

So now we just need to prove that our Simmons from Penhurst are the Simmons at Wartling.  Hmmm

Kerry
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: kerryb on Tuesday 13 September 05 11:38 BST (UK)
Hi Speedy

I am noqw going to put a couple of spanners in the works!

Less convinced that Wartling Simmons are anything to do with Thomas and Harriet mianly because children James and Eliza have at Boarzell in 1851 are not mentioned on the census returns I found for James and Emma at Wartling.

Also have just found on my brand new 1851 census CD for Ticehurst and Etchingham area.

Sylvester Simmons age 32  Da Dressmaker living at Hurst Green (born Etchingham) with Richard Simmons age 63 Carpenter (born Brightling) and Betsy wi age 66 (born Salehurst). 
Also grandson, presumably son of Sylvester, James age 4 born Etchingham, Scholar. 

Sorry

Kerryb
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: kerryb on Monday 26 September 05 10:31 BST (UK)
Sheila

Just to let you know that on Family History Online this weekend I have found:

Thomas and Ann Simmons, Penhurst, children:
Harriet born 1809
Sophia born 1812
Sarah (my ancestor) born 1814
James bapt 1818
Joseph bapt 1820

Sylvester, as I suspected was bapt 1818, daughter of Richard and Betsy from Etchingham
Frances also bapt 1818 was daughter of William and Mary of Ashburnham. 

I suspect that William and Richard are brother's of Thomas.  On IGI I found possible parents for Thomas being Richard and Lucy.

So far I have not managed to find your Thomas but will continue to search.

Kerry
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: kerryb on Monday 26 September 05 10:48 BST (UK)
Scrub what I said about Sylvestor and Frances - have just found them:

Sivestor bapt 02/03/1823 daug of Thomas and Ann,  at Chilshurst, Herstmonceux.  Obviously working their way towards Wartling.

Frances bapt 29/08/1824, daug of Thomas and Ann, again at Chilshurst, Herstmonceux. 

Again no sign of Thomas.

Kerryb
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: kerryb on Tuesday 27 September 05 08:09 BST (UK)
Hi Sheila

Have now found Thomas under the name of Simons, baptism date 19 May 1816 at Penhurst Church.  Parents Thomas and Ann.  So Thomas and my Sarah were siblings and they married Pilbeam siblings. 

Yesterday I went onto the LDS website and put in Thomas Simmons (father) with a date of 1786 and came away with a load of stuff going back about 4 generations.  I don't know how correct it is but if you want the information let me know.  Thomas was born 1786 in Brightling, not far from Penhurst.  He had a younger brother Richard, as I suggested born 1788.  His father appears to be called Richard as well.  Sylvestor must be a family name.  Richard married Elizabeth or Betsy in 1809. 

I want to find out now when Thomas married Ann and who she was.

Speak soon.

Kerry
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: speedy on Tuesday 27 September 05 17:12 BST (UK)
Hi Kerry,

Really sorry I haven't replied recently, I have been so busy at work.  Thank you for the latest information, you must be thrilled at finding your Sarah.  So Thomas and Sarah were siblings, Ann and Thomas being their parents, that is excellent news.  Ann and Thomas would have been my Great Great Great Grandparents and I would assume they are your Great Great Great Great Grandparents.  The grave at Wartling is most likely our Ann and Thomas, would you have the grave reference number?
Yes please to any further information, though I do feel rather guilty as you seem to be doing most of the work.
I will now update my database and digest the latest information.
Please could you tell what the LDS website, I'm not sure I have visited that one.

Many Thanks

Sheila
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: kerryb on Tuesday 27 September 05 18:07 BST (UK)
Hi Sheila

The most thrilling bit was proving that Sarah and Thomas were siblings and married Pilbeam siblings.  I long had believed that to be so.

Now that I have proved the Wartling Thomas is 'our' Thomas I am going to go back to Wartling and photograph the graves.  I will send you copies.  Probably next week.

I attach the information I found on the Simmons family.  Please note I don't know how accurate it is before checking it all.  The information came from www.familysearch.org (http://www.familysearch.org) the website set up by the LDS (Latter Day Saints), a very good website resource for family historians.  I have found a lot of information on there about my family but I always like to check it out for myself.  This website is worth a visit though, most of the information is quite accurate.

By the way I wonder if we are related via the Payne's as well.  I have Payne family across the Kent/Surrey border in Lingfield and East Grinstead, part of a huge family apparently!

Kerry
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: speedy on Tuesday 27 September 05 20:03 BST (UK)
Hi Kerry,
Thank you for the information, I will spend the rest of the evening writing it all up.  I would love a photo of the grave, though I will when I get time, visit Wartling myself.  My earliest photograph of a member of the Simmons family would have been Albert Simmons c1878, he would have been Thomas and Harriets Grandson.  I would say he looks approx 60years old and the photograph probably taken in  1939/1940.  If you like a copy for your tree I will be happy to send it to you.
I haven't carried out much research with the Paynes.  William Payne 1844 my mothers paternal Grandfather was born in Chatham, he married a Rachel Pilcher.   Would be strange if there was a link in that direction.

Kind Regards

Sheila
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: kerryb on Tuesday 27 September 05 20:07 BST (UK)
Hi Sheila

Yes please to a photo of Albert, though he is not a direct ancestor of mine, it is always interesting to pad the tree out with as much information about the family as possible. 

Kerry
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: Lucy Beale on Monday 21 November 05 00:36 GMT (UK)
RUTH MARY3 SIMMONS (WILLIAM JUGGINS2, THOMAS1)1 was born February 15, 1855 in St. Leonards On Sea, Sussex, and died June 2, 1921 in Ilford, Essex, England

The above could be related to the Ashburnam, Simmons as they are a family from an ancestoral farming background?

Lucy
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: kerryb on Monday 21 November 05 08:22 GMT (UK)
Hi Lucy

thanks for the information, I haven't come across her yet but the Simmons is turning out to be quite a big family.  So far I have managed to find Thomas Simmons, father, Thomas and his father Richard both born in Brightling.  I also found his father Thomas born in Brightling 1730 and then the trail has gone cold. 

It could well be that one of the children moved away from Brightling and is the line Ruth is from, I will keep my eyes open. 

Kerry
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: speedy on Monday 21 November 05 17:33 GMT (UK)
Hi Kerry,
Thank you for the information that you sent.  Yesterday I visited the LDS website, to view Brightling Thomas 1786, it revealed Richard Simmons & Lucy ? being the parents of brothers Thomas and Richard.  It also showed that (father) Richard's Simmons parents were Thomas Simmons and Grace Parks.  Today I searched the web-site again and it now seems that Thomas Simmons (1786) parents were Richard Simmons and Lucy Morgan, with no sign of the brother Richard or the grandparents, Thomas and Grace.   Please could you let me know which if any of the information is correct.

Many thanks

Sheila
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: kerryb on Monday 21 November 05 18:15 GMT (UK)
Hi Sheila

Yes I found that, there seems to be 2 sets of records on that website for the family, one complete and one imcomplete.

Richard Simmons married Lucy Morgan 1785, actually according to the SMI in Burwash not Brightling.  I also found a record of Richard marrying Elizabeth Snepp on 29 October 1809 at Penhurst.  This is the son of Richard and Lucy and brother to Thomas.  That was found on SMI too.

I think I found some census records for Richard and Elizabeth but need to go back and recheck.

By the way I got to Wartling and too photos of the graves, but the types of stone they were, they have not come out terribly well.  I found Thomas, Ann and James wife - Emma, and Joseph.  I will see if I can improve them and send to you.

Kerry
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: speedy on Monday 03 April 06 15:04 BST (UK)
Hi Kerry,

Hope all is well with you!!  Just to let you know that a relative also following the Simmons family back in time has Thomas c1700, married Elizabeth Boys on the 30th May 1721 by licence at Rye.  These were the parents of Thomas 1724, married to Grace Parks.  Prior to this date he believes that the surname was spelt Symonds.

Hope this is useful

Regards Sheila
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: kerryb on Monday 03 April 06 15:12 BST (UK)
Sheila

Thanks for the information, I shall look that one up on the Sussex Marriage Index. 

I imagine that before long we would find other spellings of Simmons, so wouldn't be surprised.

Kerry
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: kerryb on Tuesday 02 May 06 15:56 BST (UK)
Sheila

Just to confirm your last message, I went to East Sussex Records Office recently and checked the Brightling PRs and there is no Thomas Simmons born there round 1730 so we can cross him off our list.  I also found the marriage of Thomas to Elizabeth Boys on the Sussex Marriage Index, so that where he came from then!

Thanks again

Kerry
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: Starbird on Monday 09 April 12 22:41 BST (UK)
Hello everyone -
sorry if I'm posting incorrectly but this is all new to me. I am related to the Simmons/Pilbeam through Harriet (1851) who was my great grandmother married to William Coleman, have just started researching this line so any help would be fantastic.
Thanks
Linda
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: Starbird on Wednesday 11 April 12 02:58 BST (UK)
The Lamb at Wartling is definitely not nor ever has been The Horseshoe. The Horseshoe Inn is  just up the road at Windmill Hill Herstmonceux. I know both these places well. I live about 20miles from either of them.
hope it helps
Linda
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: speedy on Wednesday 11 April 12 08:33 BST (UK)
Hello Linda,
I haven't been keeping up todate with my family tree, I got a bit stuck at 1600 ish and got a bit disheartened.  I will check my spreadsheet later today and see if I have your gt grandmother, thinking back she must be the daughter of Harriet & Thomas Simmons.
Sheila
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: kerryb on Wednesday 11 April 12 15:47 BST (UK)
The Lamb at Wartling is definitely not nor ever has been The Horseshoe. The Horseshoe Inn is  just up the road at Windmill Hill Herstmonceux. I know both these places well. I live about 20miles from either of them.
hope it helps
Linda
Hi Linda

I don't know why I ever said that, because I know the Horseshoe Inn too quite well, I think at the time I got confused because Wartling parish is in two halves and I didn't realise the Horseshoe was in.  I live about 10 miles away.  I haven't done much research on the Simmons family lately, got stuck with an early one in the Rye area.

Kerry
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: speedy on Tuesday 17 April 12 09:13 BST (UK)
Hello Linda, Sorry for the delay, can you confirm if this is the Harriet you looking for, she was the 4th child of Harriet Pilbeam and Thomas Simmons (married 1842)


Harriet Simmons   Ticehurst,Sussex Abt 13th Oct. 1850
   
1851 Census   Borzell Farm House aged 8months
1861 Census   Lattendens Ashburnham

Sheila
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: Starbird on Tuesday 17 April 12 20:13 BST (UK)
Hi Sheila!
Thanks for your reply, yes she is "my" Harriett sh is my great grandmother.
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: Starbird on Wednesday 08 February 17 23:58 GMT (UK)
Thank you so very much, soory it's been so long but I'm very grateful a wonderful help THANK YOU
Title: Re: Thomas & Harriet Simmons (nee Pilbeam)
Post by: Starbird on Tuesday 23 November 21 15:08 GMT (UK)
Thomas and James were in 1851, living with their families at Boarzell Farm house Ticehurst