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« on: Monday 19 August 19 07:52 BST (UK) »
I know this is not Ancestry related but I wonder if any of you wonderful people can advise on a situation.
I had a son to my first marriage who was born in 1975. That marriage ended and I married for a second time. My first husband suggested it would be better if my new husband brought up our son as his own. To cut a long story short my son was adopted into my new marriage. I did not realise at the time that although I am his birth mother, I would have to adopt my own son into the new marriage. His name was subsequently changed. Several years later, much to my dismay I visited what was Somerset House and looked up his birth and there is a handwritten entry noting that he is now entered into the adopted child register. All indication that I am his birth mother now gone. He changed his name back to his birth name many years ago but we would both like the entry into the adopted child register to either be removed or it be noted somewhere that his adoptive and birth mother are the same person, this situation has caused problems in obtaining documentation, cannot recall what it was but am checking with my son,