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I still haven't seen it for myself but the Honorary Secretary to the Friends of St Andrew's Church, assisted by the Churchwarden, kindly located the tablet and extracted the following details:
Ursula
Margaret
Anneliese
Wyper
4.1.1921 - 11.12.2007

I enjoyed the following newspaper reports immensely:

Kilkenny Moderator - Saturday 18 February 1888 page 4
Continuation from page 3 column headed
THE MEMBERS OF PARLIAMENT
FOR THE COUNTY, CITY AND BOROUGH
OF KILKENNY
Lieut-General WILLIAM GARDINER (Thomastown, 1800-1801), was second son of the Right Hon. Charles Gardiner, M.P. for Tagmon [sic], 1741- 61, by Florinda, only daughter of Robert Norman, of Lagore, county Meath, and was grandson of the Right Hon. Luke Gardiner, M.P. for Thomastown 1727-55. He was born 23rd Oct., 1743. He was Colonel of the 60th Foot, and Governor of the Fort of Kingsale [sic].  ln 1791 he was appointed Minister Plenipotentiary at Brussels and at Warsaw in 1793. He had also been commander in chief of the forces in Nova Scotia and New Brunswick. He died 7th Feb., 1806, having married in 1779, Harriet, Maid of Honour to the Queen, 5th  daughter of the Rev.  Sir Richard Wrottesaly [sic], 7th Bart.„ of Wrottesaly [sic], Stafford, by Lady Mary Gower, eldest daughter of John, 1st Earl Gower,  and sister of Granville, 1st Marquis of Stafford, K.G.,  by her,  who died 4th December, 1833, he had one son and four daughters. (1) Charles, born 19th November, 1780, Major 60th Foot, died unmarried.  (1) Gertrude Florinda, married, 1st 19th Sep. 1796, Charles John Clarke, of Hitchin Priory, Herts. 2ndly, 8th August, 1803, Hon. Charles Tollemache (died 28th July, 1830), of Harrington, Northampton;  (2) Harriet, married, 6th April, 1805, Robert Patrick, M.D., of Tearne [sic] House, Ayr ; (3) Francis [sic], married, 1808, Lieut.-Col. Charles Holland Hastings. (4) Mary.

Variant spellings:
Taghmon
Kinsale
Wrottesley
Trearne
Frances

Star (London) - Thursday 22 September 1808
On Monday last, at Litchfield [sic], Charles Holland Hastings, Esq. Major of the 63d Regiment, to Mary, youngest daughter of the late Lieutenant-General Gardiner, Commander of the Forces in Nova Scotia.

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[quote author=TheOnlyRogueAngel link=topic=812506.msg6729380#msg6729380 date=
I can find no British birth record for Regina either, and wonder if there's a way to find out where she was born and when? [/quote]
I was at primary school with Regina. She married at age 16 and my understanding was that she was born in Germany in 1943. Her mother was believed to be a widow when she married Cyril WYPER and mother’s maiden name GERLICH was recorded when their son Peter J. WYPER was registered.
I vaguely remember a male sibling[? or other relative?] of Regina came to the UK much later, which could account for the 2 SKRABANIA children born in the late ‘60s with mother’s maiden name LORD.
Ursula WYPER died in December 2007 and her ashes were interred at St Andrew's Churchyard, Chilcomb, a delightful ancient church on the S.E. outskirts of Winchester.
Could this be her German Lutheran baptism:  Ursula Maria GERLACH in Deutschland? Sadly, I don't have a worldwide Ancestry subscription.

I'm assuming; the father of John Jenkins (Henry Jenkins) and the Henry Arthur Jenkins who marries Elizabeth Harding in 1842 are two different Henrys??

Absolutely!

Don't know if there is a link or whether these will assist in elimination?

Marriage Sept 18th 1842 at Alverstoke Parish Church
Henry JENKINS [sgd] of full age Bachelor Merchant of Gosport    Father: James JENKINS Merchant
Elizabeth HARDING [sgd] Spinster      Gosport   Father:  John HARDING Builder
Witnesses:  x Jane Rewlyn [sgd];  Stepn Silver [sgd]
[DJ note: Someone has kindly transcribed witness Jane’s name in the register as her writing is illegible.]

Hampshire Telegraph - Saturday 20 August 1898   DEATH
JENKINS-On July 17th, suddenly. at his residence at Todmorden, William John Jenkins, son of the late James Jenkins, of St. Thomas's-street, Portsmouth, also brother to the late Henry Arthur Jenkins, of St. Thomas's-street, Portsmouth, aged 70 years.

See Census references for 1841 St Thomas Street, Portsmouth HO 107 412/2 Schedule 58 page 2&
1851 St Thomas Street, Portsmouth   ref: HO 107 1658 folio 625 page 21

Hampshire Telegraph - Saturday 15 October 1853
JENKINS- MARLOW - On the 12th instant, at Kingston, Portsea, Mr. John Jenkins, of Gosport, to Miss Mary Marlow, of Southampton.