That could be Frederick William Stokeley who married Clara Elizabeth Willmerson in Dec qtr 1891
Yeah Carole, I did think that when I looked into it. Can't see any Alfred for for John Stokeley, who I found to be the son of Mary and Trafalgar Stokeley. But has I can only find him and Susanah, or Susan before and after 1864 I can't tell if they had Alfred Ambrose. He would have been left home on the later census maybe. Its likely the right family.. Only ones for Brisley at right time. I'll just keep digging. I think the Frédérick who wed Clara could have been a younger brother of Alfred.
Much more to go on than I had.
Thanks very much. And if anything else springs up please pass it my way