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Yup, so 99.9% it is them! She would be 3 months pregnant, so likely a shotgun wedding, and he already had a wife in Australia, so the pseudonym makes sense!

Bit of a vague one, sorry...I am still on the track of my controversial g-g grandparents - Eliza BENNETT and Thomas T SELLER, but have found a lot more about them than previously (https://stannardroseza.blogspot.com/p/eliza-bennett-thomas-theophilus-seller.html), their story so far here.

However, I am trying to track down 2 specific things:
1) did they ever marry?
2) where was my g-grandmother (Ethel Maude) born (supposedly Australia, but I have found no record of her birth there, or in South Africa).

She came from Queenstown, and I believe that there was no Catholic Church in Queenstown in the 1880's, is this correct?

If not, and given that they popped up in Australia by 1885, and I surmise that they left Queenstown in a bit of a hurry (she was 17, he was 22 and already had a wife in Australia); which are the likely Catholic Churches between Queenstown and the closest place they could have embarked for Australia that they could have married in?  I am not sure that any Catholic PR's for South Africa are searchable online, but if I am going to try contacting Catholic Churches and inquiring about records, it would help if I had some likely possibilities.

They were definitely in Australia, as some of their children are born there (and I have found them on birth records), she also sued him for desertion in 1889:  https://trove.nla.gov.au/newspaper/article/108099425?searchTerm=thomas%20theophilus%20seller&searchLimits=l-state=New+South+Walesl-australian=y

I have searched high and low through Ancestry, and FindMyPast, as well as FamilySearch and cannot find any record of their trip between South Africa and Australia, so I do not have any date references for this.  Nor do I have any references for them coming back to South Africa from Australia in about 1890.

OK, so I will reply to my own post, a concerted amount of luck and resourcefulness on FamilySearch and I have found her ... and she REALLY did not want to be found:

After Thomas T left for Australia sometime after 1902, Eliza (Bennett) Seller eventually ended up marrying Alexander Williamson Armstrong in Jhb in 1914.

On her marriage certificate she lists herself as Eliza Bleach (mother's first husband's surname, died before she married Eliza's father, Jonathan Bennett) Burns, with an affidavit stating that she was a widow.

She seems to have stuck with the fiction that her maiden name was Bleach until her death in 1923, where she is listed as Eliza Bleach Armstrong.

Eliza Bennett and Thomas T Seller were quite a couple of interesting, resourceful people, I think they will each get a page of their own on my family history website, now if I could only find a photo of Eliza!

Thanks Jamjar, useful resource ... apparently he was also charged with desertion of my g-grandmother, Eliza Bennett in 1889, but it seems they stayed together and returned to South Africa after.

Wed 18 Sep 1889

Thomas Theophilus. — Thomas Theopliilus Seller (33), described as a carpenter, was charged with unlawfully deserting his wife, Eliza Seller. He denied desertion, but his Worship thought otherwise, and ordered him to pay 15s. a week towards her support.

https://trove.nla.gov.au/newspaper/article/227584907?searchTerm=thomas%20theophilus%20seller&searchLimits=exactPhraseanyWordsnotWordsrequestHandlerdateFrom=1860-01-01dateTo=1943-12-31l-advstate=New+South+Walessortbyl-category=Article