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The Common Room / Re: Widows subsequently labelled unmarried - looking for examples in England 1870s
« on: Thursday 15 October 20 17:45 BST (UK) »How intriguing! You could write a story/play about it... I can see the deserter turning up broke & begging help/forgiveness while the wronged wife bolts the door (a bit like Olivia De Havilland in The Heiress).Also - has anyone come across this where the husband has disappeared so the woman is known to be apart from her husband but then has more children who aren't his. If you've seen examples of this where she's then labelled unmarried (while still legally being so) I'd love to know about them.
Not quite the same, but I have a GG Grandmother whose husband apparently disappeared between 1851 and 1861 (where she appears in the census as "wife" but he is absent).
Then in 1870 she marries another man, using her married surname but described as a spinster. Her father's surname on the certificate is correct, and not the same as her married name.
The first husband does turn up in 1881, in the workhouse of the same town, and he dies there in 1891. Did she know all that time that he was alive? Who knows.