Hi Ruthhelen,
Thank you for your reply. Just to clear it up about what I was looking for.
Janet is the daughter of Elizabeth Brown and George Bainbridge in the earlier part of the thread
Posts #21 and #25
I decided to sort through the children for their Dates of birth and deaths and possibly other info as Robert Bower had been the initial person of interest. This was just to get a family history together.
All was fine till I reached Janet born 25th October 1842.
.. I was so thrown by the fact that all the children of Janet Bainbridge married to Thomas Hetherington, had her name on their birth records as Janet Hynd Hetherington, M.S. [Maiden Surname] Bainbridge. I was not sure if I had the correct family. Then it made me wonder about this name Hynd. Hence the other Janet born in 1843 who is a totally different person.
Also those records show that Thomas' s parents are unknown so that fits with the orphan information.
Thank you for the information on where Thomas Hetherington was in the various years, however I am still having issues. On these birth records, all of them, it clearly states that Janet and Thomas were married in the USA New-york 1864. I also found a Thomas Hetherington immigrated to the USA in 1863 . He was 19. The age fits perfectly.
Also on the 1871 and 1881 their son Thomas was born in the USA 5ys old in 1871 , then 15 on the following one.
And the 1871 says that the Head Thomas was born in Glasgow, Lanarkshire and the 1817 when he is a border, the birth place is Glasgow Lanarkshire also and he is a clerk.
The immigration statement also says he was a clerk and that occupation is also on the children’s birth records. ie. Clerk , Commercial clerk, Spirit Merchant Salesman , Merchant Sales Clerk etc
So I think all the above is the correct story, I would love to get a USA Marriage doc for them or Thomas Jnr’s birth there.
Thank you so much for helping me get this part sorted out.

I might see what there is to be found with George and Jean Craig.
Essnell