Hi Ashley
The 1861 birth at Wiltshire, ENG which I mentioned previously, may well be the one

Baptism at Salisbury, St Edmunds, Wiltshire :
Henry Edwin PALLETT*born 11 October 1861 - baptised 1 Novemeber 1861
s/o Edwin PALLETT (cabinetmaker) and Emily PALLETT
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1871 - at Wiltshire > St. Thomas
Shown as P
OLLETT - but image very clearly shows
"PELLETT"Edwin - 32 - cabinetmaker and upholsterer
Emily 35
Henry - 10 - sonEliza - 7 - dau
Laura - 4 dau
Part of this PELLETT family came to NZ :
https://paperspast.natlib.govt.nz/newspapers/TS18920507.2.8Laura PELLETT maried Joseph William SHIELDS in 1892 at her parents' residence.
Their first-born son (1893) was named
"Henry Edwin" SHIELDS (do wonder then if this was after her "deceased" brother. Eliza, the sister of Henry Edwin and Laura, had also apparently died in 1893 (ENG ?)
I wouldn't worry too much about "EDWIN v. EDWARD" ... the two names are often confused.
So this Wiltshire, Henry Edwin PELLETT "marries up" quite well with the info found to date.
- On passenger list = H.E. PALLETT
- Edward PELLETT - 18 years in 1880 - (bc 1862) [Henry Edwin PELLETT - born October 1861]
- A later connection to NZ for parents Edwin and Emily PELLETT and daughter Laura (Laura's first son named "Henry Edwin".)
~ Lu