Hi Monical
I love putting my theories to the test with everyone on this board, like you say it helps sort things out, when I downloaded the Uphall marriage 1839 I was sure that this Christian was mine who married William Finnie, until it was suggested I check the St Cuthberts entry, which I did and its on checking that one I find it states that Robert Chalmers was a farmer and deceased at time of Marriage. However I have found a possible death for Robert Chalmers in 1851 Uphall and when I downloaded it, I also read a death of Christian Chalmers or Finnie a couple of days later. Sorry for all the confusion, it doesn't help when William Finnie appears to have taken a second Wife also called Christian. I also have an 1841 entry for Rob Chalmers - Occupation Toll Keeper, and like I said 3 of his children had him listed as a Toll Keeper.
Confused ... I am
I would love her to be mine but I will accept that she probably is not, unless I can find another death entry for Robert which could change my mind again.
Regards
Moo