Hi Nell
My late father in law was orphaned in 1947 - 3 brothers were sent to one home whilst the youngest was sent to another. We've no real explanation except that the youngest was "under 5" and sent to some kind of nursery. We weren't able to find this out from the authorities because they are not public records (under 100 years old) and, although they did send a summary of late father in law's admission/discharge etc., they didn't mention any of the brothers.
Luckily, the three eldest were fostered (eventually) by the same couple though father in law never knew what became of the baby. We are now in touch with him but it wasn't until after father in law died which is a shame.
One interesting fact given us by the Greater London County Council is that father in law was recommended for emmigration to Rhodesia - it was to be his own decision apparantly - but he was fostered in the meantime. Though he spoke about his time in the home, lost baby brother, fostering etc., he never once mentioned anything of this proposed emmigration to Rhodesia. Nor did the two brothers who were in the same home and fostered by the same couple know anything about it. After reading "Empty Cradles" and other similar books & articles, we doubt that he was even aware of the proposals.
One of my correspondants, distantly related, has a grandfather who was a home child sent to Canada - records say that his parents were deceased but according to our research they weren't! Nor are the parents names in the records correct - correct Christian name for father but he has the maiden name of the mother. The mother has maiden name (the other one - she used two!) but incorrect forename. We are definite about the parents because the records mention 3 siblings with more unusual forenames but that is about the only thing that is correct! One of these siblings (formerly in the workhouse) was back living with the mother in a later census! The other two were elder and not in "care". Fortunately, the English parentage was discovered before the home records!
Best wishes
Casalguidi