Shane thanks for all the information. I did see the 1901 census. I think we are right about David/Thomas and I think Thomas Goldsmith b.1905 was known in the family as Francis to save confusion. Tom and Joe the two older boys were in WW1, in the Buffs Mum said and that Joe had been in trouble in Mesopotamia and finished up in Barlinnie jail. She said that he ran away from guards in Kent and found her at a hop field, she told him to give himself up. I think it was Moses that joined the Dominicans, but suffered from ill health and due to that returned home and later died of a perforated duodenal ulcer which must have been terribly painful. Another brother was fetched home from work on a farm gate used for a stretcher,he had tetanus and died from that.
Thanks too for giving me the info on the Gregory boys, I hadn't known that James Henry had also died. Poor Elizabeth it must have been awful for her losing two baby sons and then her husband.
I forgot to say before that Rumpuscat's partner descends from Aaron Goldsmith brother of our Tom and son of Moses and Sarah.
I hope we will hear from Tomscot that he has found a link to his Goldsmiths, it would be good to get further back on that line. I was born in Brighton, Sussex myself and was surprised to find our Goldsmiths there in Sx, I thought all but the Kenny/Ronans came from Kent.
All for now, Brenda