I wondered if anyone can come up with any other ideas as have looked everywhere that I can think of.
My great grandfather Elias Sounde came from Norway and was a seaman he probably married Jane Sarah Healey around 1877/8 as their first child Richard was born in 1879. All the children were born in West Derby in Liverpool but she was originally from Middlesex.
I cannot find a marriage record with the 2 of them anywhere on line. According to census data she was born in 1853 approx so have looked at al the years from being 15 yrs old (plus a few more for good luck) and looked at healey/heeley.
His name has been spelt as Launde in 1881, Saunde in 1891, Sounde in 1887 and Soundie by 1901 which it remains as.
Have tried both Liverpool and Middlesex with all combinations of spellings even looked up every Elias who got married just to check if it had been spelt bizarrely
Found one that looks likely Jane Heeley west derby in dec 1872 (8b 87) but there is no elias on the same page also Sarah jane Healey pancras middlesex 1878 (1b 118) but again no elias is this common? Is there anyone with any resources that can look up any more info before I give in and order the certificates.
Apologies if I have asked this here before I have subscribed to far too many groups now and cannot remember who I have asked what