Well spotted, with the 1861 census!
I agree that William is 52. The 3s and 5s in the censuses often give pause for thought?
I had seen the 2 marriages listed on FreeBMD, but knew that the 1846 record was not my William, as he is also to be found at Stokenchurch in 1851 and I found his marriage to Esther Sanders on 21 Nov 1846, at Radnage.
The 1853 record, I only glanced at, because I thought it was too late, but now I think it must be our missing Ann!
I looked in my own Stokenchurch PR Index and saw......
William Sadler (wid) 37yrs old, m. Ann Parker 25yrs old, on 23 Jul 1853.
William is listed as the son of William and Ann as the dau of
Phillip.Now that could explain why the child c. in 1851 was named John Phillip?
But I am still very puzzled about who was living with William in 1841!
Was that actually Patience, but she called herself Ann... because Patience only died in 1842?
Or was that Ann Parker, but they listed her as Sadler?
And worst of all...... who did all those children belong to and where were they born?
I don't see Ann Parker at Stokenchurch in 1841...
I see Philip and Sarah Parker, with 4 children, but no Ann?
If she was only 25 in 1853, when she married, that would make her about 13 in 1841?
Maybe she was helping to care for the children, but then, where was the as yet, undead Patience.......?