Hello
I have been researching my family tree and have now started on the Tilbury / Gardner side of the tree, some of the information I have may be of interest to you.
Alice Gardner dob: 1860 .. Father : John Gardner (Butcher) of Guernsey, Henry James Tilbury
dob: 1863 Father : Daniel Tilbury (Gardner). Both Alice and Henry were in service at Woodend House Soberton, Hampshire. Alice was a house maid and Henry was the footman they married at the Parish Church of St Mary Lambeth, Surrey on October 27th 1881. It seems that Alice was a runaway bride and was pregnant or had their first born Laura dob: 1882 and they ran away to London to marry. Henry then became a Police Constable, in 1891 Alice and Henry lived at 1 Ivy Cottage Alverstoke, Gosport, Hampshire and Henry was a General labour.
The family story goes something like this: the Gardner family (John and Caroline) from Guernsey, (Caroline being a bit prim and proper) were not best pleased when they found out that Alice had married Henry but after a while they come round to the fact.
The story continues that John and Caroline Gardner used to send Alice, Henry and family money so they could visit them in Guernsey, they also sent some extra on the proviso that Henry purchased a new suit for their visit.
Hope this is of interest
If you have any photographs of the Tilbury / Gardner side of the family I would be most interested to see them.
Robert