Hi Kerry
Abraham Sands married Eunice Oliver at Heathfield 29/1/1799. She is often referred to as Nisa in the Heathfield registers. Abraham Sands was the son of Benjamin Sands (b. Dallington) and Ann Thomas (b. Rotherfield).
Abrm. and Nisa's children were Sarah 1801, Thomas 1803, Willm. 1809, Eliza 1814, Jeremiah 4/5/1815 bap. and Hannah 11/1/1818 all of Heathfield.
I cant see a baptism for Eunice Oliver with my limited resources but does she relate to your Olivers, perhaps born around 1779?
The William Sands you mention who married Mary Monk I give to John Sands and Mary Vallance of Warbleton, he was baptised about 1731 in Dallington wasnt he?
Again I dont have a date..this couples subsequent children were all bap. in Warbleton.
There is also a contribution on the IGI for a birth at Dallington William or Joseph Sands 1730 son of Joseph Sands and Mrs Mary Sands. Now, a Joseph Sands of Dallington is a direct paternal ancestor of mine. The son of William and Mary Sands. Joseph married Eliz. Hunt 16/4/1744 from Mountfield at Battle.
Joseph is my great, great,great,great grandfather. Since Joseph had a son baptised in Burwash called William in 1755, mother given as Mary I am puzzled by this one unless Joseph was married previous to Elizabeth to a Mary. Also Elizabeth wife of Joseph Sands died in Burwash in 1757 so was alive when William was born.
I'm really confused by all these William and Mary Sands and Joseph's marriages!!
I must get down to ESCRO to see these registers for myself
Hope the Oliver info is useful to you.
Regards M.Ann