Hi,
When I began researching my family history I too was wondering it if would be worthwhile joining a society, most of my research (I thought at that time) was in Glamorgan, so I waited a while, looked at their website, and then joined. I am so glad I did, the society produces a quarterly journal, as a member you can have free look ups of census (and very quickly too) and searches of the the parish registers. Enquiries can also be made to the various branches for census etc.
I live in Berkshire so also can't attend meetings, but I did make a trip to the resource centre, and the people on duty that day were so helpful, and I discovered a great deal of missing information. (But Welsh Jen on this site has also been brilliant!).
Since then I have also joined Wiltshire FHS, and have made a trip to their resource centre - again the people I have met have been extremely knowledgeable and helpful. I would definitely recommend joining a Society.
Newbie