thank you very much krisesjoint that was helpful i understand now lol
now i understand that i can move on
how would i go about Finding Out Who Reuben Married?
Please read this thread properly, along with your other thread. You have been given a lot of information. You need to start entering the data you have into a tree. We are just not getting anywhere here. You know who Reuben married. I found it for you!
Put a program on your computer and enter all your data. You will then be able to see at a glance what you have. It will take some time to enter all this - be accurate. All your BMD's, census references, etc you have been provided with so far are very important. It all needs to be entered to provide a complete picture. Until you have worked though this and have a firm picture I am sorry there is little we can do to help you.
You can get a free Family Tree Program from the net to enter your data into. Legacy springs to mind but I am sure there are other free programs.
http://www.legacyfamilytree.com/You seem very keen which is lovely to see in someone your age, but you really do need to get a firm picture yourself before you can ask for help. Follow all the links on the boards designed to help beginners get started. There is much available online to help you get started. Use free resources you can easily access yourself to start with - resources like the the IGI and 1881 census
http://www.familysearch.org/eng/search/frameset_search.asp?PAGE=search_all1.asp&clear_form=trueFreeBMD
http://www.freebmd.org.uk/cgi/search.pl . Your Woolpit people will be found in the district of Stow.
Check the links provided in the resources sections of your counties of interest etc.
Its all good fun finding the pieces of information. Put in the time on some basic research youself. First things first - get to know your family.
Once you have done this and have everything you have been given entered, hopefully you will have a good picture of your family, you can come back and place requests for further information on the appropriate boards.
All the Best.
Kris