Alex - This has also gone through my mind, was 'dead at sea' just a convenient story. Maybe Valdis was told this by his mother or maybe he knew the truth (if it is the truth). I did believe it to be honest, because she re-married, but if her first marriage had been in Latvia and second in Sweden I suppose she could get away with it in those days if Aleksander was actually still alive. Then I thought, if it's true he would have died between the wars (as Im told he died when Valdis 'was little'). Then I considered that he could have been killed in a collision or explosion, or even natural causes. We dont know when he was born but as he was a captain (as Valdis put on the marriage cert) he would have been in the navy a while. Also wondered why Annette had no more kids, did she have Valdis late in life or just not have anymore.
Pointless me asking family as they aren't and weren't interested, Im the family-orientated one. Their memories arent the best either and nobody wanted to ask his widow as she refused to talk about it. Im going to look at the link, this is a good find thankyou!! It says Aleksander born 1907, that might make him too young to have been a captain by the late 1920s as I think you have to be in the navy a while. God knows whats true, I have to go on what Ive got. Valdis was superstitious (naval traits) and loved fishing and being by water. No religion at all was practised, or references to Latvia.