Hi David,
Thank you for the marriage details, as you say everything is worth bearing in mind. I will also look to see if I followed back on the Alice that died. There are three baptisms at Ramsey around the time mentioning a John and Alice Stevens and also just Alice. I did find a solidier named John Stevens but no marriage so the name John has probably no connection at all!
As you say Barnabas Brighty was buried on 1 March 1814 aged 41 years. His Will was dated 7 July 1812 and Proved 21 July 1814. So indication is that Alice was married before July 1812.
I have the baptism of this Barnabas Brighty in 1773 and his marriage to a Mary Smith (Smyth) in 1797, there is a lot about his land on National Archives.
I have looked for a Bastardy Order at Huntingdon R.O. but he obviously made his own provision for Alice's child, which says something in his favour!
My 2 x Gt. Grdfather, Barnabas was buried at Ramsey on 4 October 1866 under the name of BRIGHTY age 71 (I have cert). From ages given on Census returns, he could have been born anywhere between 1794 and 1797.
At least when I 'did' this family it explained why my mother once remarked "your father's family didn't know who they were"!
Thanks again.
Selina