ok here goes:_
1861 living in Neath Llantwit LowerRichard age 31 born Llanidloes Montgomeryshire, engine fitter
Mary age 33 born Cadoxton Glamorgan
john age 9 born Aberdare
Mary age 7 born Aberdare
Sarah J age 4 born Aberdare
Zephaniah age 3 born Llantwit, Neath
1871 living in LlangyfelachRichard age 39 born Aberdare, engineer hand
Mary age 43 born Cadoxton Neath
John age 18 born Aberdare
Mary age 17 born Aberdare
Sarah Jane age 15 born Aberdare
Zephaniah age 12 born Neath
Elizabeth age 8 born Neath
Hannah age 5 born Llangyfelach
1881 living in High Street, PontardaweRichard age 51 born Aberdare, furniture dealer
Mary age 53 born Cadoxton
Elizabeth age 18 born Neath
Hannah age 16 born Llangyfelach
William age 11 born Llangyfelach
Daniel age 9 born Llangyfelach
1891 living in High Street, PontardaweRichard age 59 born Aberdare furniture dealer
Mary age 60 born Aberdare
Daniel age 19 born Languicke
Hannah age 26 born Llanguicke
1901 living in High Street PontardaweRichard age 70 born Neath house furnisher
Mary age 73 born Neath
I feel fairly confident I've got the right family throughout the census returns but its the little details that are stopping me going any further... I did find mention of a christening in 1829 of a Richard Jones in Llanidloes, son of John & Sarah, both names my relative uses for children, maybe coincidence I know.....
and again a christening in Llandinam, Montgomeryshire, 1829, son of John & Mary, again both his childrens names, and what throws a spanner in here is that while Llandinam isn't mentioned on any census return I clearly remember my grandmother use to talk about Llandinam because she would comment on how its should be pronounced properly!!!
Feel like I've hit a brick wall. Havent picked up my research for over 6 months, and now I remember just why....
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