I think.....Charles Abraham BUREAU b Sheerness Kent 1853 went by the name BYLES in the 1861 and maybe the 1881 Census. It's a bit complicated - but it looks to me as if his stepfather was one Valentine John BYLES who went by his middle name, John - and that he and Jane BUREAU nee JONES didn't marry until 1875, at least 18 years after they began living together as man and wife....which infers one of them at least was not free to marry until 1875. Here goes!
MARRIAGE: Dec Qtr 1875 Bristol, on the same page are these two:
Valentine John BYLES
Jane BUREAU
I don't know for sure if they did marry each other - but I think they did - I also believe:
Valentine John BYLES is the same person who first married Lettice JONES, Jun Qtr 1850, Portsea
Lettice BYLES died Sep Qtr 1855, Portsea
The ages they (Valentine and Jane) would be in 1875 if I'm right, would have them both being born in the 1820's.
I was involved in a topic back in 2006 re: Valentine John BYLES' family - he was born 1825 Portsea, Hampshire into a family with Seafaring/Marine background, parents Samuel and Ann BYLES.
http://www.rootschat.com/forum/index.php/topic,197079.0.htmlAt the time, I lost track of Valentine John BYLES and never found him on any census. All I found was his birth on IGI and his new wife Lettice with his mother in 1851, no children with her - he was apparently at sea iat the time. I also suspected he was the same person marrying again in 1875, but didn't really look into it, as the topic was not about him specifically.
Anyway.....by way of your topic, I think Valentine John BYLES is as follows:
1861: 10 Albert Street - Upper Bangor, Bangor, Caernarvonshire, WalesRG9 / Piece: 4351 / Folio: 75 / Page: 13
Head: John BYLES 36, Coast Guard, b Hampshire
Wife: Jane BYLES 35, b Pembrokeshire
Son: Samuel BYLES 9, b Southsea, Hampshire
Son: Charles BYLES 8, b Sheerness aka Charles Abraham BUREAU??Son: William BYLES 4, b Landport, Hampshire
Dau: Rosetta BYLES 2, b Bangor, Caernarvonshire
Son: John BYLES 3 months. b Bangor, Caernarvonshire
Theory:
(Samuel is John's son by Lettice JONES?, registered as Samuel Thomas BYLES Sep Qtr 1851 Portsea)
(Charles is Jane's son by Charles BUREAU, registered as Charles Abraham BUREAN Sheppey)
(William is the first of John & Jane's children : William Valentine BYLES birth registered Jun Qtr 1857, Portsea Island).This theory puts Charles BUREAU (b Quebec?) out of the picture by mid 1857 - did he die, disappear at sea or abandon his wife & son? Did Jane leave him? The fact Jane and Valentine John didn't marry until 1875 suggests BUREAU may have been alive , or at least not proved dead, until near 1875?
1871: Cambrean Street - Llanstadwell, PembrokeshireHead: John BYLES 46, Porter, b Portsmouth
Wife: Jane BYLES 45, Porters Wife, b Ho-s-?, Pem. (Hoast?) (Hoset) (Coast?)
Son: William BYLES 14, b Portsmouth
Son: John BYLES 10, b Bangor, Car.
Dau: Rosetta BYLES 12, b Bangor, Car.
Dau: Ann BYLES 2, b Bangor, Car.
Dau: Flora BYLES 5, b Neyland
(Can't yet see son Charles BYLES (your C A BUREAU ?) age abt 18 in 1871 - he may've been at sea. Son Samuel BYLES age abt 19 is also not in the 1871).1881: 15 Cambrian Terrace - Llanstadwell, PembrokeshireRG11 / Piece: 5414 / Folio: 38 / Page: 23
Head: John BYLES 56, railway Porter, b Portsea Hants
Wife: Jane BYLES 57, b Cafforn?, Pembrokeshire
Son: Charles BYLES 28, unm, Mariner, b Portsea HantsSon: John BYLES 20, Engine Fitter, b Bangor, Caernarvonshire
Dau: Annie BYLES 12, Scholar, b Bangor, Caernarvonshire
Dau: Flora BYLES 10, Scholar, b Neyland, Pembrokeshire
Sister-in-Law: Mary JOHN 63, b Cafforn? Pembrokeshire
Grand-dau: Bessie REES 3, Scholar, b Neyland, Pembrokeshire
(The 1861 Census has son Charles b Sheerness. Is son Charles in 1881 a mistake & he's really Samuel BYLES who was born Hampshire and would have been abt 29 in 1881? This Census conflicts with that Charles BUREAU age 22, the Baker lodging in Middlesex 1881). Cannot find Samuel BYLES after 1861 either.)
The other interesting thing is, Jane JONES who I think was became Mrs Charles BUREAU in 1850 and Mrs John Valentine BYLES in 1875 was born Pembrokeshire abt 1821.
Lettice JONES, who became Mrs Valentine BYLES' first wife in 1850 was born Pembrokeshire abt 1824. Common surname I know, but I wonder if Jane and Lettice were related, sisters even?
Cheers
AMBLY