Hi Evie,
It is really strange that William can't be found on 1861, 1871 & 1881 censuses
While we wait for Peppitts-Benistons (Jane) to reply regarding William’s address in 1882.
Not much help really but it appears that at least Emma is from Stoke on Trent area
marriage from FreeBMD
http://www.freebmd.org.uk/cgi/search.plThomas
BAILEY name on same page
Anna
STREETSep q 1853 Stoke on Trent
Birth from Stafford BMD
http://www.staffordshirebmd.org.ukYear 1861
BAILEY Emma Sub dist. Shelton Registered Stoke on Trent
Mothers maiden name
STREETChecked for birth for William using soundex
PEPPITT four years either side 1859 but unfortunately no matches came up, even checked using just forename of William
Then checked births West Midlands BMD, using same principal as above
http://www.westmidlandsbmd.org.ukonly came up with these two
1858
POPPETT William sub district Rowley Registers at. Sandwell Register Office
(this William parents I believe are George & Mary A
HETHRINGTON - marriage 1853 Dudley)
1860
PIPPETT William sd West Bromwich Sth. West Registers Sandwell
I don’t know how up to date these sites are though
So it’s possible he was not born in Stafford (Hanley) even though this is what is noted on 1891 & 1901 census.
His birth year of 1859 seems to be consistent, as for his surname PEPPITT this seems to have numeous spellings
Here’s two links which may be of interest
1) the church with some pictures where William & Emma married and
2) The history of Hanley
http://www.thepotteries.org/church/hanley/st_lukes.htmhttp://www.thepotteries.org/location/hanley/hanley.html