I might look into the Ann Hemus family a bit more, but Charlotte married a John Jones
and the only other sibling is a brother Thomas. There are 2 Ann Hemus marriages in the GRO, but neither of them is this Ann Hemus.
There is a Mary Hemus I haven't eliminated. She is the daughter of Joseph and Phoebe Hemus, bpt 25 May 1825 in Bromsgrove and is with her family on the 1841 census, but not there in 1851. This family is recorded in the census as Emus or Emuss, and are in Bromsgrove.
(Confusingly there is a younger sister named Maria who is recorded as Mary Ann in 1841! She is accounted for, and is too young to be our Mary Ann.)
In 1851 there is a Mary Hemus working as a servant in Worcester who is the right age to be Joseph & Phoebe's daughter, but her birthplace is given as Great Witley, not Bromsgrove.
Sad to say Birmingham Register Office is nowhere near as cooperative since John Yates retired. I found them very frustrating to deal with recently. They no longer have a genealogist, and it's quite a bit more expensive than it used to be, especially now that the GRO offers the pdf option. So much better to have the primary version with real signatures though, and you know that any mistakes (or lies!) are original and not down to a copying clerk.
For Henry's ancestors we are back to the 17th century with his paternal lines, and the same with his mother's paternal line, although not her maternal line. Doesn't help that Etheldra's parents were both Rogers, which is a common name in Shropshire. I never found baptisms for either of Henry's parents, but filled the gap via the will and marriage allegation as mentioned upthread. That was a very useful day at Hereford Record Office
I've made a note of your email address before it gets deleted by the mods
Now that you've made 3 posts, you can use the private message system on here. But it's good to keep the theories and research on the thread in case anyone else has something to contribute.