Here is Janet/Jennie on 2 censuses living with daughter Jessie. If she was living with them it seems they could not have remained at odds. It may have been the fault of the father, choosing favourites or Perhaps the fellows got the son's / male heirs crap / usual larger share of the pie so more had to be fought for?
https://central.bac-lac.gc.ca/.item/?app=Census1871&op=&img&id=4396670_005211871 Hopewell, Pictou, Nova Scotia, Canada
Hugh Fraser 47 1824 N S
Jessie Fraser 47 1824 N S
Jennie Fraser 20 1851 N S
Margaret Fraser 18 1853 N S
Hannah Fraser 15 1856 N S
Jane Fraser 13 1858 N S
Duncan Fraser 11 1860 N S (middle name Cameron?)
John M Fraser 8 1863 N S
***in household:
Jennie Cameron 71 1800 N S
1881
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:MVXS-37SJessie Fraser Female 57 Nova Scotia
Fredrick Falconer Male 42 Nova Scotia
Catheren Falconer Female 32 Nova Scotia
Nettie Fraser Female 30 Nova Scotia
Margret Fraser Female 27 Nova Scotia
Hannah Fraser Female 24 Nova Scotia
Janine Fraser Female 22 Nova Scotia
Cameron Fraser Male 20 Nova Scotia
John Fraser Male 17 Nova Scotia
Jennie Chisholm Female 85 Nova Scotia
(Note Frederick Falconer & Catherine Ann Fraser
Marr. 16 Aug 1870 Truro, Colchester, Nova Scotia, Canada)
See that they were also enumerated again...home with their children
Well at least it helped find another child for her!!!!
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:S3HT-DYDS-7VF?i=617&personaUrl=%2Fark%3A%2F61903%2F1%3A1%3AMVXS-QF5Hugh Fraser 1823 DEATH 16 Aug 1878 (aged 54–55) BURIAL Riverton Cemetery , Pictou County, Nova Scotia, Canada
Jessie Cameron Fraser BIRTH 1824 DEATH 30 Apr 1888 (aged 63–64) BURIAL Riverton Cemetery Pictou County, Nova Scotia, Canada