Hi,
Am very new at this, so apologies in advance if I do something wrong!
I believe that one ancestor LYDIA WRIGHT is the one that married WILLIAM WHITING BILNEY.
I believe this Lydia to be the one baptised at Stonham Aspall in 1778. Unfortunately, the parish register only lists the father's name, SAMUEL WRIGHT, but from other records, I believe her mother was a LYDIA THREDKEL.
From the parish register for St Mary, Bedingfield, Suffolk:-
26 April 1772 William Whiting BILNEY, baseborn son of ELIZABETH BILNEY baptised.
A search on the Suffolk Records Office website, brings up a marriage licence bond:-
'WILLIAM WHITING, yeoman, widower and ELIZABETH BILNEY, singlewoman, both of Bedingfield. To be married at Bedingfield. Dated 14 July 1772.'
The actual marriage took place at Bedingfield on 21 July 1772.
I think that this William was buried at Bedingfield on 14 August 1808. His age was ecorded as 74, which would give a DOB as 1734, and that his wife, Elizabeth was buried at same on 6 November 1809, aged 57 (so born abt 1752).
WILLIAM WHITING BILNEY was buried at Helmingham, on 21 April 1849, but his abode is shown as Barham Union Workhouse.
I have found him on the 1841 census for the workhouse (surname under WHITING). I have also found his wife, LYDIA in the census for 1841 and 1851. In 1841, she appears to be living on her own, her name is shown as LIDIA BILNER. In 1851, she can be found at Ashbocking:-
LYDIA WHITTING, lodger, widow, aged 74, birthplace Stonham Asphe. Occupation shows 'parish relief'.
Head of household is shown as MARY ANN WHITING and 4 of Mary Ann;s children.
Lydia WHITING als BILLINER was buried at Ashbocking on 8 January 1860.
Haven't yet be able to determine who WILLIAM WHITING was married to before Elizabeth, or where he was baptised, but I hope the information I have given above helps you in your searching.
Good Luck!
Regards
Jacqui