Thanks so much guys. Yes Dundee, that does look very promising, I think that you have qall found our Thomas!!
I am still getting used to our computer & just now deleted a whole reply, so will retype it all.
I have almost no info on Thomas Cooper apart from date of marriage, that he came from Kent (another source states Shifnall, Shropshire but I think this is wrong). SORRY about the typo error..MATTHEW Howlett (not Thomas). The Coopers (Thomas & Mary & their children) lived in Parramatta. I have no idea where Thomas lived before that.
The Mary who married matthew Howlett was NEE DAVENPORT. She conceived a child, Mary (Howlett) in the Uk while Matthew was in Australia, so the father of Mary (junior) Howlett is unkown. I did actually find out who it was (but have lost this record & will only confuse an already confused thread).
I don't have a copy of the CF of Matthew Howlett but i do know that he married Elizabeth (no issue) but divorced her when Mary was deported (arriving in Aus in January 1820 with little Mary). I know that Mary & Matthew hooked up again & had quite a few children together. Matthew Howlett became a petty criminal & was constantly in trouble with the law. I don't think that he & Mary stayed together into old age. Mrs Howlett was one of the witnesses on the birth certificate of my g grandmother (1868) so she was still alive then.
Mary (nee Howlett) Cooper, the one born 1816 did work at the School of Industry but she was born in the UK, in Birmingham. She wasn't born in the colony (this must be an error, or maybe she was covering up her illegitimacy?).
Will reply again tonight. Was my other post posted?
Thanks so much. How do I go about saying that this was solved??
I will attach a photo of my g g grandmother (the one born 1868) tonight but won't confuse with the name yet (as another mary...