Hello Dundee,
Thanks for your help. I may have mis-led with wrong information, because I have managed to make contact with family member who doesn`t remember much about what they were told, but is clear about a couple of things. They confirm Jane Mary was Scotch, and recall being told that James Henry was Irish, as it was unusual for Irish to marry Scotch.Which means I need to look in Ireland for a lead on James
I was also told that Jane was alive after 1903-until at least the late 40,50`s and that she died in Petone Wellington. Buried in Taita Old Section Cemetery, which can`t be accessed on line. I have found two Mary Janes that the dates fit ,but the family member is adamant her name was Jane Mary, and not Mary Jane. I'm not so certain.
As for the marriage date, this also may be incorrect.
So it`s back almost to square one. Sorry for wasting everyones time. I'll Post again if I uncover more information.