How can I be sure - Thomas Vick

[Ladyhawk]

Having a quick look Peter Oakley is listed as son-in-law. This is an alternative for step-son.
So Ann Vick appears to be Ann Oakley nee Day.

I can't see any births registered for Peter or Robert 

Gloucester BMD have these with mmn Oakley/Day

VICK   Ellen   OAKLEY   1857   Cheltenham   Cheltenham, Cheltenham   37   415
VICK   Ellen   DAY           1857   Cheltenham   Cheltenham, Cheltenham   37   415

VICK   George   DAY   1862   Cheltenham   Cheltenham, Cheltenham   46   497

for info. ann's death

Ann Oakley Vick, age 70 9 Northfield Terrace
Burial Date:   20 Oct 1896 St Mary’s cheltenham
Register Type:   Parish Registers

Is this another marriage for Richard Oakley or just another with the same name 

20 May 1861 Birmingham, St Jude, Warwickshire, England
Richard Oakley 52 widower occ packer  Father:   Richard Oakley occ farmer
Spouse:   Elizabeth Hemming

Alfred Albert OAKLEY mmn  HEMMING     
1864  D Quarter in KINGS NORTON

Henry Howard OAKLEY mmn HEMMING
1866  D Quarter in KINGS NORTON 
from GRO indexes showing mmn

added - Richard's age 63 and occupation on 1871 census with Elizabeth is a Gardener -
Helen Amelia OAKLEY mmn HEMMING1862 D Quarter

The Richard Oakley marriage to Elizabeth is available to view online perhaps comparing the signature of both Richard Oakley's to see if they look similar 

[Janice Jones]

now you mention it I don't have Peter's birth record but I do have consistant census records and a death record
Yep, I think Richard married again too!

[Ladyhawk]

Here's his baptism

Peter Mason Baptism   3 Aug 1846 Cheltenham, St Mary, Gloucestershire
Mother:   Ann, single woman
Register Type:   Parish Registers

[Janice Jones]

Thanks for looking, 'cos I'm stumped 

[Ladyhawk]

Just realized I'd deleted my original post 

When adding baptism of the Peter Mason born 1846

MASON, PETER       -     
1846  J Quarter in THE CHELTENHAM UNION  Volume 11  Page 229

1871 census Robert Oakley age 17 underneath Ann Vick written in brackets
(son of first husband)

but I cannot find birth registered for Peter or Robert in surname of Oakley 

[Janice Jones]

Nor me.
I can find a Robert day with mothers maiden name of Day but it's way across the country

[Janice Jones]

I'm returning to this thread as I have another dilemma>
From Reply 13 "Following on, Richard Oakley who I believe married Anne Brazenore in Pontesbury Salop was widowed in 1849 & came to B'ham where in 1851 he married Ann Day"

I have turned up 2 1951 Census which could both be Richard Oakley and family!

1. with Ann Brazenor and family:

Name:   Ann Oakley
Age:   45
Estimated birth year:   abt 1806
Relation:   Wife
Spouse's name:   Richard Oakley
Gender:   Female
Where born:   Pornsbury, Shropshire, England
Civil Parish:   Stottesdon
County/Island:   Shropshire
Country:   England
Registration district:   Cleobury Mortimer
Sub-registration district:   Cleobury Mortimer
ED, institution, or vessel:   1d
Household schedule number:   1
Piece:   1985
Folio:   242
Page Number:   1
Household Members:   
Name   Age
Richard Oakley   50
Ann Oakley   45
Bethich Oakley   20
John Oakley   19

2. with Ann Day and son Peter?
Name Richd Oakley
Age 45
Estimated Birth Yearabt 1806
Relation Head
Spouse's Name Ann Oakley
Gender Male
Where born
Pohlesby, Shropshire, England
Civil parish Aston
Ecclesiastical parish Bordesley Trinity
Phillimore Ecclesiastical Parish Maps11599
Town Deritend and Bordesley
County/Island Warwickshire
Country England
Registration district Aston
Sub-registration district Deritend
ED, institution, or vessel 2a
Household schedule number112
Piece 2060
Folio 310
Page number 29
Household Members 9257706
Household Members
Name Richd Oakley Age 45
Name Ann Oakley Age 36
Name Peter Oakley Age 5

Can anyone give me any direction?
Many thanks

[Annette7]

Number 2 is 'your' Richard Oakley and Ann (nee Day) - already living as man and wife when they didn't marry until 3/9/1851!   Richard a gardener on this 1851 census and also on the marriage certificate.

Annette

[Ladyhawk]

1861 Piece:   1799 Folio:   7 Page Number:   7
Thomas Vick   26 Malmesbury Wiltshire
Ann Vick   38
Peter Oakley   15
Robert Oakley   9
Ellen Vick   3
Thomas Vick   1
all others born Cheltenham

VICK, THOMAS   mmn DAY
1860  M Quarter in CHELTENHAM  Volume 06A  Page 422   

Ann Oakley VICK Aage 70
9 Northfield Terrace Cheltenham
Buried St Mary Cheltenham 20th October 1896