I'm slightly confused. For a long time I've had a Thomas Fone in my family tree born in Lane End, Longton in 1828 to Thomas Fone (1801-1881) and Elizabeth Buxton. This Thomas Fone was baptised in 1836 in St John's church, Longton (very unusual as every other child in the family was baptised as a baby). He appears living with his parents and siblings on the 1841 census aged 13, which fits with his birth year. He went on to marry an Emma Finney in 1850 and, as of yet I've got no record of his death.
Yesterday I came across a Thomas Fone born in 1830 to Thomas Fone and Elizabeth, baptised in St John's church in the same year. I would ordinarily assume they were the same person and there was some confusion on the census, as they are rarely accurate. However, the baptism dates are what made me think they could refer to 2 different Thomas Fones. I immediately searched for a burial record, thinking this Thomas Fone could have died young but found nothing. Strangely, he doesn't appear on the 1841 census at all and I can't imagine he left home before age 11. There is only ever one Thomas Fone on any other census relating to this family too.
I recently found an inscription on a grave in Fenton cemetery (near Longton) for a Thomas Fone who died in 1901 aged 71 (putting his birth year as 1830) and his wife, Hannah. After a bit of research I've found that this is Thomas Fone who married a Hannah Wild in 1880.
The dilemma is this- the wife of Thomas Fone (born 1828), Emma Finney (who I know is my great, great Grandma) died in 1877 so it is plausable that Thomas may have remarried to Hannah Wild in 1880. This leads me to believe that Thomas Fone (1828) and Thomas Fone (1830) are actually the same person.
Based on the fact that Thomas Fone (1830) vanishes after his baptism record and doesn't seem to have died and the coinciding death dates for Emma Finney and the marriage in 1880 of Thomas Fone and Hannah Wild, what do you think? Would you be inclined to believe they are the same person based on this?
Confusing I know but I'd be grateful for any help!