great-thanks for that.
I have his death index and marriage certificate, but don't have a birth index for 11 feb 1812 Earlscolne Essex(then can find Ann,Thomas's wife surname ).Will now be able to seek Henry's first wife on english soil(thought maybe he married and widowed in America)and look for return to UK between 1837-1841.
Must have been a bad time to survive, Henry and harriet lost 4 out of 7 children, Wesley herbert Moss Snr( my gt grandfather)was the youngest of the 3 that survived.His story is very interesting.
Wesley snr married the daughter(Laura Cockman) of lady Eleanor russell.Laura's grandfather, Jacob Russell(1789-1849) married twice,Laura and Wesley adopted the illegitamate child of the grandaughter (Eleanor S Russell) from Jacob's other wife. Laura and Eleanor were both ladies in waiting to Laura's mother.The line from Jacob is unbroken up to John Russell the first Earl of Bedford(1485-1555.The child was also called Wesley Herbert Moss, we have a ring from the birth mother's mother Eliz (nee Day) Russell which has a lock of hair.Wesley jnr is my grandfather .I guess when we fill in all the gaps and maybe do a DNA test, the truth will out