Good morning,
My sincere thanks to all who have replied.
Census 1841 has John and Elizabeth, both 45 yrs with children Sarah and Susanna ages 10 and 15
In 1851 Elizabeth is with son Stephen, age 26, at 121 Charlton Green, labourer's widow. Her age is difficult to decipher, could be 64 or 67 Piece H. O. 107 163
The children I have found were baptised at St. Andrew's, Dover, Kent beginning with Thomas and Mary 11/08/1816. Father is listed as labourer on all records.
I do not know if this will assist but it is the only info that I have.
Kind regards from Joan
One tree on Ancestry lists Elizabeth Stanley or Elizabeth Lucy Stanley as wife of John but no proof is given.