Hi Dawn,
Welcome to RootsChat, we are a family history forum that researches the ancestry of our normally long deceased family members.
To increase the chances of finding distant family connections anything posted is viewable across the internet which is great for making connections but not in any connection to folk who maybe living as often the details given are sensitive information. To protect people and their identities we do not encourage the posting of information about people who are or maybe still living. I have just edited your post to remove sensitive information.
Please have a look at the links recommended which gives some guidance on researching living folk, that may help with your search.
Wishing you the best of Luck with your research.
Regards
Sarah
