Hi Rosie, Thank you for your help.Henry James moved to Lincolnshire, where he settled in Cleethorpes/
grimsby area. I am in c ontact with some of his descendants. Just as Florence never spoke of having a brother, Henry J. never spoke about a sister. It has always seemed strange to me, that H.J. was with the Pilkintons, but no sign of Sarah or Florence. As far as I can ascertain, Sarah appears to have been committed to Leavesden Asylum in Watford, as a Sarah Blandford is there from '81 until her death in early 1900's.
At some time before her departure to Aust. Florence became involved with a .C.of E. family called Sinclair, as 2 of that family, Janet Mary and John Stuart are god parents of my grandfather and his brother, and I have a family bible which came from the Sinclair family.
Florence was very close mouthed about her past, and was very much about 'saving face' or doing the right thing
Realise this is a bit of a 'story', but there it is.
Cheers, June