I took two distant cousins there a few weeks later, and we turned the stone over so we could read it (after taking secateurs and knives to clear a path!) but most of the face of the stone had rotted away into the earth - it had obviously fallen a long time ago. However, we made out some of the names and other text (we knew who had been buried there from the cemetery records)...we decided to leave the stone up - we and our immediate families are the only descendants of the people in the grave, so we felt it was our right to leave the stone upright and visible, if it had been in better condition we might have laid it down again to preserve the carving, but so much of it was gone we preferred to have it standing so it could at least be seen from the path.
I was really saddened by the state of about 80% of the old Camberwell cemetery. The same, I believe, goes for many of the very large Victorian urban cemeteries in London. The letter I had from the council indicated that the grave was in a "conservation" area - when I first read that I thought "oh good, they are conserving all the graves so it will be in great condition!" - how wrong I was!
Gosh, what a rambling post that was
Have attached a pic of part of the stone so you can see the state it was in. I asked the council if I could lift it and they said I could basically do what i liked with it.
Prue
Unfortunately your actions are going to cause the stone to deteriorate more rapidly and my even (if you left the stone standing) result in the stone being removed, in case it falls on someone.
It is possible to read some stones where the entire face has eroded but this is expensive at present, as with all technology it will become cheaper in time.
Laying a carved stone face up will cause rapid deterioration due to frost damage, laying a stone face down slightly below ground level protects from frost damage, as does a good layer of leaves.
Stones that were intended to be laid flat are normally of better quality stone deeply engraved.
A conservation area or nature conservation area means a part of the graveyard where they can't be bothered clearing the undergrowth and it is allowed to return to nature.
Cheers
Guy