I think we can rule that Thomas out.
1881 we have;
Thomas Perry, 40
Caroline Perry, 33
John Perry, 10
Benjm. Perry, 7
Thomas Perry, 4
Harriet Perry, 2
PERRY, HARRIET Mothers mn BRIGGS
GRO Reference: 1879 M Quarter in DUDLEY Volume 06C Page 108
1900 US Census on Familysearch.Org
Household
Birthplace
Thomas Perry, Head, M, 60, born England
Caroline Perry, Wife, F, 55, England
John Perry Son, M, 29, England
Benjamin Perry, Son, M, 26, England
Thomas Perry, Son, M, 23, England
Rebecca Perry, Daughter, F, 16, England
Immigration Year 1888
PERRY, REBECCA, Mothers mn BRIGGS
GRO Reference: 1883 S Quarter in DUDLEY Volume 06C Page 91
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