Hello Claire,
Thanks once again for providing all this great information.
Regarding Robert Pinder (1758-1830) and Elizabeth (Fox) Pinder (1755-1832):
Robert was the son of John Pinder (1716-1797) and Jane (Beilby) Pinder (1725- ? )
They seem to have had the following children. Mary (1787-1791), John (1789-1796), Bathseba (1792-1792), Hannah (1792-1792), Elizabeth (1794 - ?) Ann (1797 - ?) Bridget (1800) whom married James Goodwill (1780-1832)
Regarding the John Pinder Headstone.
This Headstone was that of John Pinder, brother to Stephen Pinder, son of John Pinder (B1742) and Alice Leadley.
The headstone mentions 5 children born to John, which died in their infancy. I believe they are : Hannah (B1826 -1826), William (1830-1832), James (1837-1837) Hannah (1839-1839) Mary (1840-1841)
The headstone also mentions John's daughter, Elizabeth Binnington. She married a Robert Binnington (B1827) of Pidsea, East Yorkshire. They married 25 November 1851 in Kilham.
Also, a son, Thomas is mentioned. It states he died in North America in 1866, but i'm finding census records that see to place in Brindlington until 1881 (past his stated year of death..) So, clearly cannot be the same Thomas.. Am still looking into this.
So, the loose thread is John Pinder (1716-1797), where was he born, and who were his parents? Maybe we have gone as far back as can be reasonably proven.