Mapping the wrong Pinder branch?

[StephenCND]

I'm well into mapping my family tree, at this point working on a Thomas Pinder Born 1825-Bridlington-Yorkshire D1876 Married to a Mary Pinder (1821-1901). And that's where things went south. I was trying to determine the maiden name of this Mary Pinder. Someone's tree pointed to a Mary Sawton, but their tree points to the father of Thomas Pinder as being a Roger Pinder, and not a John Pinder (B1802-D1842) Baptized in Kilham. That put the whole lineage in question.

Here is what the line looks like from my research:
(-The key or touchstone person here is Stephen Pinder (B1803 in Kilham D1882, Ontario, Canada. Married to a Mary Ann Coulson). His brother (should) be John Pinder, mentioned below). Stephen Pinder is my Great-Great Grandfather

John Pinder (B1716 Snaith) D-1797) + Jane Beiley (1725-1804)
John Pinder (B1749 Kilham-D1843) + Mary Clark (B1773 Kilham - D ?  )
John Pinder (B1802 Baptized Kilham - D 1842) + Alice Leadley (B1802 - Kilham - D1884)
Thomas Pinder (B1825-Bridlington D 1876) + Mary Sawton

The other persons tree breaks down in the following manner:

Roger Pinder B1729 - Barmston - D?)  + Catherine Donkin (B1737-D1813)
William Pinder (B1766-Burton Agness D1841) + Jane Deighton  (B1768 - Gristhorpe D1872)
Roger Pinder (B1796 Rudston - D1865) + Harriet Sampson (B1796-Bridlington D 1872)
Thomas Pinder (B1825-D1876 + Mary Sawton (1821- Barmston-D1901)>

Two things that have me concerned about my tree: John Pinder 1716-1797 is showing as being born in Snaith.. that's a bit of a ways from Kilham.

The other thing is John Pinder (B1802 Baptized Kilham - D 1842): Someone here provided a photo (Headstone) of John Pinder  https://1drv.ms/i/s!AifC60WL0cSMuWSFvmZqD3xHEDOh
It's inscribed on the headstone that Thomas died in 1866 in North America, but I cannot find any trace of it.

So, is my timeline correct? I'm particularly worried about the two first John Pinders .
And, is this Thomas Pinder the wrong Thomas?

Any assistance would be greatly appreciated.

[..claire..]

Hi

Have you tried registering with the GRO service and searching for any known births of children to Thomas and Mary ?

This site will give you the maiden surname of the mother

https://www.gro.gov.uk/gro/content/

Claire

[giggsycat]

Hi Stephen,

They are probably looking at this possible marriage.

From FreeBMD:

Marriages Dec 1844 
BRYAN    Tamar        Bridlington    23   43    
PINDER    Thomas        Bridlington    23   43   **** 
Sawden    Mary        Bridlington    23   43   **** 
STEPHENSON    Edmund        Bridlington    23   43

NB Mary's surname is given as SAWDEN not SAWTON.

Do they have the Marriage Cert for the fathers names?

Giggsy

[..claire..]

Who is the Thomas Pinder son of John & Alice baptised in Kilham ? - this one surely is yours.

The Thomas P baptised in Bridlington 1825 is the son of Roger and Harriet

[giggsycat]

Using Claire's suggestion:

First child?

Name:                           Mother's Maiden Surname:    
PINDER, JOHN  THOMAS     SAWDEN     Order
GRO Reference: 1845  D Quarter in BRIDLINGTON  Volume 23  Page 24     

Another one:

Name:                   Mother's Maiden Surname:    
PINDER, WILLIAM       SAWDEN     Order
GRO Reference: 1848  J Quarter in BRIDLINGTON  Volume 23  Page 21


 Giggsy

[jim1]

Same info as the others + Mary Sawden is dau. of Lewis & Elizabeth Sawden.

[jim1]

There's a Roger Pinder Bapt. 1801 Rudston to Wm. & Jane.
At the moment the other tree looks right.
Can't see a marriage for Wm. & Jane at present but Dau. Sarah b. 1841 has mmn as Sampson so that looks right.

[StephenCND]

Hi
Have you tried registering with the GRO service and searching for any known births of children to Thomas and Mary ?
https://www.gro.gov.uk/gro/content/
Claire

Ah.. how do you register?

[jim1]

Jane Pinder died 1862 not 72.
Click order certs. online then Order Certificates Online and search the GRO historic birth and death indexes & log in/register.
Not sure about the Burton Agness William as there's another b. 1766 Bridlington fa. William.
There's another b. 1765 at Barmston fa. Roger.