As far as the Fanny Taylor marriage in 1863 is concerned I cant find Joseph on any further census.
1871, she is living with her dad and first son, Richard. No Joseph.
1881, still with her dad and another child Florence, no Joseph.
1891, still with her dad and daughter Florence, no Joseph. Fanny dies 1897.
The second marriage to Deborah in 1868, Chelmsford is just as strange.
1871, Joseph Haszele is head born 1839 from Ipswich, she is from Great Waltham! B.1847. Two kids, Beatrice and Susannah, 2 and new born. Beatrice dies 1876.
1881, She is living with Susannah and 4 more kids in Fenny Stratford Bucks, no Joseph senior although she has a child Joseph, aged 8, born in Ipswich!
1901, She is living in Luton with Susannah and more kids. No Joseph..!
1911, She is in Luton with Susannah still. No Joseph. She dies in 1931
So she is from Great Waltham where the marriage was and Joseph...when he is there, his details match too. Is he living a double life? She has had a son Joseph according to 1881 census in Ipswich which is odd.
Like Eastenders this family..!