Thanks to all of you - this is indeed very complicated it appears. I was thrilled to see those two documents on line, the will which is indeed in such great condition and the Gillam one. I assume I can buy them from the two different Sussex places that have them?
But I could be up the wrong tree - and I note none of you mention Mary as one of the daughters of Nicholas Banckes and Ann Gillam - and the gap between her birth and her siblings is rather large.
I am looking for this family - and whilst it says Mary Bancks background (she is the person I am following)
https://www.familysearch.org/tree/person/details/2MP2-M5JHowever how likely that she was born in 1594 and marries in 1606 and has her first child in 1608?
1548 BANCKS
Nicholas Bancks husband of Ann Gillam
b.1548c
m.1574 Jan 19, Ann Gillam (a widow), Ardingly, West Sussex, Eng.
d.1614 Lindfield, West Sussex, Eng.
O Tailor
1555 GILLAM
Ann Gillam wife of Nicholas Bancks mother of Mary Bancks
b.
m.1574 Jan 19, Nicholas Bancks, Ardingly, West Sussex, Eng.
m.Joane? Will names Joane as wife and daughter Elenor who is married, potential marriage SMI 19 sept 1603 Lindfield, Nich Bancks + Jone Pollard?
d.
Children 2
1575 Oct 23 bc Elenor Banks, Ardingly, West Sussex, Eng.
1578 Mary Bankes Wivelsfield
1594 cJune 8 Mary Bancks, Ardingly, West Sussex, Eng.
Mary Bancks wife of John Potter mother of Thomas Potter
b.1594 cJune 8 Ardingly, Sussex Eng.
m.1606 Aug 10, John Potter, Worth, Sussex, Eng.
d.
Children 6
1608 c.Nov 6 Thomas Potter, Worth, Sussex, Eng.
1611 Aug c.Aug 25 Francis Potter m.1631 Oct 23 William Russell c.
1613 Feb 6 c.Feb 6 -1643 John Potter c.1644 William Potter
1619 Nov 21 c.Nov 21 – 1626 Mar 18 George Potter
1623 Sept 28 Charles Potter
1645 Dec 28 c.Dec 28 Bridget Potter SEEMS LIKE A RATHER LARGE GAP here too.
Regards Bronwen