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How would you interpret "Occupation: Companion" on a Death Notice?
« on: Thursday 04 October 18 12:41 BST (UK) »
I've found the Salisbury Death Notice of the woman my grandfather married and divorced hurriedly in the 1920's. She was subsequently married and divorsed again, which must have a bit unusual for those days.  I've always been interested in the pall of silence that hung over her. There was some speculation that she may have been an alchoholic. Anyway, her death notice in the 1940's lists her occupation as "Companion". Is that as vague as covering anything from friend to girlfriend to professional girlfriend? Would that level of vagueness be deliberately used at the time?
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Re: How would you interpret "Occupation: Companion" on a Death Notice?
« Reply #1 on: Thursday 04 October 18 13:10 BST (UK) »
Looking back through old magazines you see advertisements for a companion foe an elderly person
so it seems to be an occupation.

To me it implies that you get accommodation food etc. in exchange for helping with the housework
and being there if needed.

Reading behind the lines I wonder if in this case there might have also been an expectation of a bequest in a wii.

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Re: How would you interpret "Occupation: Companion" on a Death Notice?
« Reply #2 on: Thursday 04 October 18 13:12 BST (UK) »
Hi, 

I had understood that a  Companion would likely be a paid, live-in position.  Was there a paid house-keeper also in the household?


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Re: How would you interpret "Occupation: Companion" on a Death Notice?
« Reply #3 on: Thursday 04 October 18 13:37 BST (UK) »
Hi, 

I had understood that a  Companion would likely be a paid, live-in position.  Was there a paid house-keeper also in the household?


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This is how I would interpret it as an occupational category.  However, I can see that it could be used as a euphemism for a live-in lover, etc.

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Re: How would you interpret "Occupation: Companion" on a Death Notice?
« Reply #4 on: Thursday 04 October 18 15:01 BST (UK) »
A "Bidey-in!" in this neck of the woods, as in, she's awa oot wi her bidey-in!

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Re: How would you interpret "Occupation: Companion" on a Death Notice?
« Reply #5 on: Thursday 04 October 18 17:24 BST (UK) »
There is a good description at
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lady%27s_companion

However I am not sure it is appropriate in this case.
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Re: How would you interpret "Occupation: Companion" on a Death Notice?
« Reply #6 on: Thursday 04 October 18 17:29 BST (UK) »
"her death notice in the 1940's lists her occupation as "Companion"....."

Companion to Whom??
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Re: How would you interpret "Occupation: Companion" on a Death Notice?
« Reply #7 on: Friday 05 October 18 03:22 BST (UK) »
The narrator of "Rebecca" was a companion to a wealthy American widow. They were holidaying in Europe when the narrator met Max De Winter and quickly became his wife. This person was a well-brought-up young woman who had been left orphaned with little or no money. She did errands for her employer and accompanied her on outings if required. I think the novel is set in 1920s or 1930s. There's at least one character in a Dickens' novel who was a companion. Some companions may have been poor relations of their employer's family.
A companion's duties might vary depending on requirements of her employer.

As to the other meaning of the word - Camilla Parker-Bowles used to be described as the companion of the Prince of Wales.

If the woman's occupation was companion in 1940s it was more likely to be the first meaning. As others have said, she may have been a mixture of carer, maid, housekeeper & cook to an elderly woman or invalid, or just someone to be present and do errands. 
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