Yes, this is the man I have been looking for a death for. I have him documented up to 1911.
The family name has morphed over the years, James was the only one of 8 children to have Tinkler as a surname on his birth registration, the others were all registered as Sinclair.
I know of James' marriage to Henrietta, they married at the registry office in Gateshead on 7th May 1882. They had five children, of which only two survived to adulthood.
By 1901 Henrietta had left him and was elsewhere in Gateshead, with her daughter (her son was not with his father either but boarding elsewhere).
The reason I have been looking so long for a death for James is that Henrietta went to live in Essex with her son and daughter and is recorded in 1911 as the 'wife' of another man. She married that man on 27th September 1916 at the West Ham register office and she 'said' she was a widow. I assumed that if they'd waited that long she must have had word that he had died - though its possible she just fibbed!
I tried for a long time to find a death for James between 1911, when he was living with his brother John in Gateshead, and 1916, when Henrietta re-married, but have failed.
This burial record I have found , though long after Henrietta married, is the nearest 'possible' I have found. It has no middle name (but neither did his marriage certificate) and IF there is a death notice and someone who is at the library is able to look it up for me that may help to confirm or discount it.
Boo