Looking for marriage record in England

[KimberlyAnnLambert]

1861 census RG9/581/59 p 18 Horsted Keynes

William Lambert 44 Head Basket maker b Brighton
Esther Lambert 42 b Portsea
William Lambert 21 born Portsea
Joshua Lambert 18 b Portsea
Elizabeth Lambert 17 b Brighton
Thomas Lambert 13 b Upper Beeding
Samson Lambert 9 b Nutfield Surrey
Henry Lambert 6 b Clayton
Aaron Lambert 4 b Burston

[Milliepede]

Yes if there was a marriage and we can find it would certainly help! 

Where and what date was the first born Christened?

[Little Nell]

No Esther Campbell  baptism in Hampshire, no William Lambert baptism in Brighton that I can see. 

No marriage in either Sussex or Hampshire that I can find.

I don't think they married.

Nell

[KimberlyAnnLambert]

I have the following info about their marriage. Don't remember where I got it.
marriage:
Oct 1849 • Brighton, Sussex, England
Esther Campbell

[avm228]

Informality as to marriage (and interchangeability as between mother’s and father’s surname) is fairly commonly found in gypsy/traveller family history.

[avm228]

I have the following info about their marriage. Don't remember where I got it.
marriage:
Oct 1849 • Brighton, Sussex, England
Esther Campbell

There is no marriage corresponding to this on FreeBMD.

[KimberlyAnnLambert]

yes, I have been blocked here for decades, my other 3 lines are French Canadian. SUPER easy to trace. Catholics are diligent about their sacrament records. Gypsies, not so much .

[avm228]

I see that the son “Aron” Lambert, aged 14 in 1871, was a nephew in the household of Alexander Campbell, a 45 yr old dealer in china and glass born in Chichester.

Living in Croydon in 1871: RG10/845/80/33.

[KimberlyAnnLambert]

Yes Alexander is William's brother. I believe I have his parents although not verified but Esther is a bit of a mystery.

Perhaps the following is their marriage record with a misspell on his family name:
William Barrett aged 21 m 6 Aug 1835 Esther Campbell Saint John Waterloo, Surrey, England