In my research, I have found that if the marriage isn't between at least 2nd cousins or 1st cousins once removed then I've problem got the wrong people!
I'm guessing the second cousins that you are referring to are Alfred Norman King and Grace Mary Bagehot Norman ... and as you still have the King name ...does that mean your husband is either Ian or Graeme?
I'm descended from John King and Anne Catherine Norman's daughter Alice King
Dr John "Kell" King born 1735 married Elizabeth Biggs in 1760 in Jamaica, they had 12 children
The Kell name persist through descendants of Dr John King - e.g. a son was named Samuel Kell King
Dr John King had a brother Francis King b1742, he married Sarah Bryan and they had 7 children from 1768 onwards, all born in Jamaica - none of his descendants are given the Kell name
So I ask you, does it make sense that the two brothers that inherited some land in Jamaica and emigrated mid 1700s were called Doctor John King and Captain Kell King, or is there something wrong with the story?
I've seen three families that have the same history - descendants of three separate children of Dr John King and Elizabeth Biggs. via Francis King, Sarah Ann Smith King and Richard Cargill King.
It's odd as how many families would have such a precis history passed down the different children, it certainly wasn't a story made up by a later generation down just one of the children's lines, which might have been something done post abolition
Digging around there seems to be too many earlier Kings in Jamaica to explain the two Yorkshire King brothers inheriting land .... unless one of those earlier Kings wife decided she would be better of living in England with the boys
Dr John King and Francis King just seem a bit too successful or intermixed with prominent Jamaican families to have "just fallen of the boat" so to speak
There are also extensive links with French refugees from Saint Domingue (Now Haiti) - the De Gournay and Corre Desgouttes families.
Both Michel Raphael Issac De Gournay (1713-1813) and his wife Perrine Therese Elizabeth Chevolleau (1730-1802) had claims for property lost in Saint Domingue. Some of those properties are labelled "AF" (French for Family Association), often indicating shared ownership of the property with other families - one such property is called "
KILL KING" (sic), but may have been Kell King
De Gournay emigrated to St Domingue between 1748 and 1759 and evacuated to Jamaica in 1794