From researching and of what we know now.
These are questions I think I should have asked myself before starting my own Famiy Research ??
No doubt you could all add some more ??
Can you think back on what / why you wanted to start finding on your Family History in the first place ??.
Was Is it that you just wanting to know where you come from ?
What their status in society was ??
What were there skill's, Were they rich or poor??
What sort of housing did they live in ??
Were they foreigners, what country did they come from ??
Were there any murderers, criminals of any kind ??
Would you like to know of the crime's and who they had committed them on ??
Had you a specific plan ?
Had you set yourself that when you reach a certain year you would stop?
Cost - Had you set a figure limit on researching, and where are you with that at present or don't you care now?
Did you have other Family member's resenting you in digging up the past, when would you do as they ask, and stop ??
If you knew of a wrong doe'r found in your Family History, who would you tell?.
Could you just bring it out and tell just anybody in conversation or would you keep it to yourself and only let Family members know that want to know. ?
It leaves you to think on what you have found to decide to yourself whether it still needs to be kept under wraps?
What you have discovered may upset more than just one of your living Family members.?
By disclosing your find it break's up Family relationships, perhaps's for some time ?
With the finding's, found that you were uncovering an act ( illegal ? ) which was done deliberately, altering and making changes that would affect everybody who would / could be researching into the Family's name, before now, - now, - and in the future ? ( I.e. Census - altering of the true facts ! ?? )
Anybody researching the line, is or has been going in in the wrong direction. Making what I would a truly double brickwall situation.
A Total mess-up of a Family Line !!
These finding's were resolved by three of the family connections working together, combining notes, and with what knowledge they had of the family. One of us was not known before to exist from the other two and vice versa.
The connection of a Family member found through researching, you can't get a better result than that, but It has to take 120 plus years before we know about each other family's.
To find each other from a Family History connection like us, we cannot really believe it.
Us deciding to work together to try and break the Brickwall. I / We don't think we could have done it by working by ourselves. A One for all, - All for One situation I think. ??
Also definitely with some help of other's from this site, Rootschat. Many thanks all of you for your help, no matter how small.
Our predecessor's their time taken, tried, very hard to hide their deliberate changes ( illegal ? ) that they made to be put on legal document's.??
They somehow managed, continued to live their lives knowing what they had done was unlawful / illegal ?? by deliberately falsifying Census records ?.
Unavoidably, if anything else was done, even to try and put right their changes, I / We think that also might have been classed as illegal. The Family definitely wanted to move on. It seems / must have been a very hard decision to make. They did make that decision. From this what comes out of it, does put an answer to certain things, certain happenings, unfortunate things, of a later date. Their decision on what they had made they must have known what the penalty ( ?? ) would be for falsifying a legal document. If is was ever discovered what they had done.
The ""crime"" committed did not involve any other people other than chosen ( close ) family members. No one was Injured physically by the wrong doing/s. No one would ever be out of pocket by their action's taken. No one had anything stolen from them.(
) No other person needed to suffer any physical pain from their action's. THEY just had to live with knowing of what they had done, BUT had they broken the law ?.. Their crime was to themselves really, once they had made the decision to alter the information that was required. There really would be no easy way back and had to live with the choice ( crime ) that they had made for themselves for the rest of their lives.
They probably wanted to if they could, change totally some of the happenings of approximately the previous 10 years of their lives......
TBC.