Help with Ripple, Strensham or Leigh records

[whittenbury]

Hi I wonder if one of the local Worc researchers could hep me with my 5th g gran?
This one might be a bit complicated but if I put all I have found to give some clues where I can find record etc.
Her name is "Dessamore Neddings" (you would think that would be easy)  Timeline.
Born Ripple 1802?
In Dec 1825 it looks like she had a child Thomas Neddings  in Ripple (her name Decima Neddings), no mention of father.
on May 4 1830 she married Benjamin Haywood in Strensham, (not seen original so do not know her status)
In 1841 census, name is Desemore Haywood, Chapel Lane Leigh, no mention of Benjamin (not seen original so do not know if widow)
It also looks like one of her Children William was born 1828 (I know 1841 not exact) but can not find a bapt. I have found the bapt of her other children all Strensham.
In 1851 census she is Dessey Haywood, in Bransford, Worcestershire, Widow born Riply.
Her Children say born Hillcrom (? Hill Croome).
After this I can find no record of her (or her children, apart from her Daughter Elizabeth Matilda b 1830 Marr 1851 Birmingham, my 4th gr gran (I have all the bits for her)
sorry it's a bit long winded 
What I would like is a point in the right direction where I could find Bens birth & death (the only death I could find was in 1838 was Kidderminster, but thought that might be a bit faraway)
The Birth of Dessamore Neddings  (what ever type of spelling) or the death of her as Haywood.

Thanks for taking the time to read
Den 


 

[louisa maud]

1841
Desemore 40 lab
William 11
George 8
Philip (?)
Alfred 1
all born in county but it doesn't show if she is a widow on 1841

Louisa Maud

[whittenbury]

Thank you (it's a pity as that would have narrowed his death timeline)
This is the one I found, but as far as I can work out it is miles away?
Name:   Benjamin Haywood
Address:   Blackwell St
Gender:   Unknown
Burial Date:   12 Aug 1838
Burial Place:   Kidderminster, Worcester, England
Age:   48
Birth Date:   1790

[louisa maud]

Just looked at that one, last child aged 1 on 1841, perhaps it isn't him, if he had died away from home one would have thought he would have been brought home to be buried but in those days no doubt it was the cost

I think I would look further on that 1851 even though she states she is a widow by  then

Louisa Maud

[whittenbury]

Thank you Louisa it is confusing 

[louisa maud]

Pity you can't get hold of the marriage cert

Louisa Maud

[louisa maud]

Death
Desimond Haywood
1883
aged 80
W Bromwich

Louisa Maud

[whittenbury]

WOW, Thank you 

[trish1120]

Dessey MEADINGS christened 6 March 1803, Ripple, Worcestershire
Parents THOMAS/ELIZ
(Source Familysearch.Org)
Definitely must be her!

The surname may be very fluid!

Possible Birth Reg for Alfred;
(I may be very off here)
HAYWOOD, ALFRED, Mothers mn   MEDDOWS*** 
GRO Reference: 1840  S Quarter in UPTON UPON SEVERN  Volume 18  Page 474
 


Trish