Wow! You are all incredible. I see now the mistakes I've made with dates (face palm). I must've estimated them at some point and not updated as I found more info. I also see that I should have given you every bit of info I have on their families.
So Thomas Wilson and wife 1 Margaret Jane (I now think she is Livingstone based on what you all have sent me) I think this wife died around 1873. Had 7 children: Angel who died in 1916 (not sure of birth date) and she had no children. Then Mary Ann Wilson who married Jonathon Pollock, next was Alexander Wilson who I believe had a daughter Gertie who married a Kerr, then Robert Wilson, next my relative Margaret Jane Wilson Feb 11 1865-May 3 1930 who married William Gilbert in Dublin (Son of Thomas Gilbert and Mary Moore), George Wilson who moved to the USA and finally Elizabeth Wilson.
Thomas Wilson then remarried Jane Carrothers. They had the following 7 children: Lettie Wilson Grimoson, Rebecca Wilson married Jack Beresford (had children Harold, William, Edith, Mable), Thomas William Wilson July 8 1877 Enniskillen- Dec 26 1958 New Jersey, Catherine Wilson married Thomas Beresford had daughter Bertha (Jack and Thomas are brothers), Charlotte Wilson, William Wilson, Ben Wilson died after 1959 (was living in 1959 in Port Stewart)
I have found someone I believe to be related online whose parent's last names were Howe (father) and Brown (mother) and through her mother's side had the Wilson cousins that owned or ran the post office in Enniskillen. Trying to figure out how her Wilson's connect to mine.