Yes, isolating people from those who truly have their best interests at heart
is a classic strategy used by those who try to control other people.
Next move is it is all the victim’s own fault and they believe it.
Then they deserve to be punished,humiliated and demeaned.
The victim really starts to believe it to the extent they start to feel neglected if they have not been verbally or physically abused for some time.
Those with autism can not be false,they speak the truth as they do not really understand subterfuge and lies,even to saying thank you for a gift they do not like,they can’t do it.
But what honest ,fair people,
Stirling characters.We have one such in our family ,born before Autism or in their case Asperger’s Syndrome was invented!
Still not formally diagnosed but all the signs are there.
The plus side outweighs the negative.
To get back on topic,we do not know it all ,but on the face of it the mother was brutal,but in her defence she obviously had the measure of her son in law.
Poor daughter,looking at the best of this ,it is possible her daughter was not the type the s in l liked,mother could see what the outcome would be.
She spoke up in defence of her daughter’s well being and was proved correct.
It is a bit like saying to a friend “ does this suit me? “ and being told by a true friend that it didn’t,whereas a false friend would say it did.
Poor Mum would be wrong either way.
Would the mother’s comments be even published today?
Viktoria.