Hello
I've had a think about the Stradlings over night and done a bit more digging.
Looking for Lydia's family is tough as they are obviously Baptists and they don't believe in infant Baptism and don't leave easy to find birth records.Between 1754 and 1837 however they would have had to marry in the local church ,because Baptist Chapel weren't legally valid.
So their marriages must be in the C of E church and they would probably have been buried there too as Baptist chapels might not have a graveyard.
Bearing that in mind i took another look at Wellington Stradlings.
After all the couple usually marry in the bride's parish
Nathaniel who made the Will was buried 11.10.1809 at Wellington St John's ,age 81
So 1728-1809
He married Hannah Tothill 1.9.1758 wit Samuel Northam and William Stevens
He was baptised at St Johns 1.6.1729 s of Nathaniel
Nathaniel senior had married Elizabeth Giles 7 Mar 1728
Now thanks to Colin and his wonderful work we know amongst other things Phillip and Lydia's first 3 children were Hannah , Nathaniel,and Elizabeth.
Perhaps not a coincidence ?
Fingers crossed the extract of his Will could give his children.
You never know.
There is a nice website which gives the families in Wellington St John alphabetically which may also help
www.genuki.org.uk/big/eng/SOM/Wellington/Transcripts/c-s3The baptist chapel transcriptions are at
https://sites.rootsweb.com/~pbtyc/H_m_w/Well/Well_Bap_baps.htmlAll the best
Ciderdrinker